An Open Letter to All My Friends and Loved Ones....
Q. To All My Friends and Loved Ones.... It is time to say goodbye. My usefulness here is depleted. I have enjoyed every minute of it and have been so fortunate to meet the people I have! I may be back someday...I don't know for sure. But right ...
A. 9 July 2009: Hurry back...we'll be waiting for you!... (read in full...)
Dead jealous of my boyfriend!
Q. I am dead jealous of my boyfriend. We have been together for over 10 years, we have a son together and we live together for 7 yrs. now. we are planning to get married maybe next year. last weekend on a old friend gathering his ex. gf was there with ...
A. 8 July 2009: Maybe she is just lousy with math? I'd say forget it, no biggy.... (read in full...)
Irresponsibly drunk, sent him harsh hurtful words, now things are even more messed up
Q. hiya, i would like anyone to help me regarding my boyfriend. We had a huge argument last saturday and both attended a party that night. We didn't talk as we were both mad at each other and both got really drunk with seperate groups of friends....
A. 8 July 2009: He will when he's ready and if he still is interested. Whatever you said to him may have been a deal buster but if it just hurt his feelings he probably will get over it eventually. You need to have some self-restraint and quit texting or calling ... (read in full...)
Irresponsibly drunk, sent him harsh hurtful words, now things are even more messed up
Q. hiya, i would like anyone to help me regarding my boyfriend. We had a huge argument last saturday and both attended a party that night. We didn't talk as we were both mad at each other and both got really drunk with seperate groups of friends....
A. 8 July 2009: Leave him alone.... (read in full...)
The best snog of our lives...
Q. Hey. I'm Mimza and I have a question for you. Me and my boyfriend want to have the perfect most wonderful snog of our lives, and we are researching all the websites, and trying to get advice. I really need some. Thanks! xxx...
A. 8 July 2009: This makes THE very best nog:
Ingredients
4 egg yolks
1/3 cup sugar, plus 1 tablespoon
1 pint whole milk
1 cup heavy cream
3 ounces bourbon
1 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
4 egg whites*
Directions
In the bowl of a stan... (read in full...)
Is her disease even real?
Q. my girlfriend says she has a disease called S.A.D. (social anxiety disorder) and she hates doing anything with me around other people (drinking, or just hanging out) and acts completely different around me than her friends. around her friends she ...
A. 8 July 2009: If her idea of social activities is snorting cocaine then you I'd say she needs therapy and medical attention. I wouldn't expose her to more "social activities"....you could end up busted.... (read in full...)
Irresponsibly drunk, sent him harsh hurtful words, now things are even more messed up
Q. hiya, i would like anyone to help me regarding my boyfriend. We had a huge argument last saturday and both attended a party that night. We didn't talk as we were both mad at each other and both got really drunk with seperate groups of friends....
A. 8 July 2009: First leave him alone, totally. Let him come to you. And second, lay off the sauce if it affects your judgement so drastically.... (read in full...)
Please help... My brother molested me and I'm afraid he'll do it again.
Q. Recently, my stepbrother has been trying to pants me. i thought it was just some inmature thing a brother would do. but last night, my step brother and me were in my room talking. We were just talking about his ex-girlfriend and other thing like ...
A. 8 July 2009: Tell the parent you are the most comfortable with, and tell them soon. You can't live in fear.... (read in full...)
Will I regret having sex with someone I won't love later in life?
Q. So I'm 14 and I know I'm kind of young, but I look more like I'm 18 apparently and I've done everything but have sex, and I've been asked many times to have sex and I've always turned people down, but I kind of want to have sex, but I partly also ...
A. 8 July 2009: Of course you should wait until you are madly in love with someone. Otherwise what would be the difference between you and a poodle?... (read in full...)
I'm so confused and I feel so used!
Q. im not sure how this whole sex thing goes im only 13. but any way heres the story and tell me what to do...okay so i have a guy friend hwo lives walking distance away. i text him sometimes and well go hang out at the sovial hall. so one t...
A. 8 July 2009: You weren't used, you were smart. Think how awful you would have felt if you had met up with the guy and actually did do something with him. He is only looking for some action nothing more. Consider yourself to be too smart to be played by him.... (read in full...)
Is he interested in possibly dating me?? Is the ball in my court and I should make the next move?
Q. Something kind of exciting happened to me the other day but I don't know what my next move should be. I just hired a lawyer to do some work for me and I have met him only three times. Our last meeting was a few days ago and it was all business like ...
A. 8 July 2009: I don't think the ball is in your court. If I were you I'd wait to see what develops. Do you know that he is single?... (read in full...)
Dating a cousin's best friend?
Q. Do you think a guy would feel uncomfortable dating his girl cousins best friend? I just wanted to know what you guys thought about this situation. Would you not want to get into a relationship?...
A. 8 July 2009: Why do you think this would be a problem? I don't see it.... (read in full...)
When a guy is touching a girl, what should she do?
Q. When a guy is feeling up a girl, what should the girl be doing? Something for the guy? Or just enjoy? Etc...
A. 8 July 2009: You could do a little knitting but be very careful with pointy end of the needles.... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to have sex with a stranger I chat to in the Internet??
Q. Hi, Im 15, and i met a girl on the internet who is 19. Ive been talking to her seriously about us and she asked if we wanted to meet up and to have sex. I said yes, shes attracted to me im attracted to her. We have shown eachother our parts on webc...
A. 8 July 2009: Showing your "parts" to an adult via a webcam is also against the law. ... (read in full...)
What should I do if I find flirtacious comments by my boyfriend dated almost a year ago?
Q. I went through some of my boyfriend's forum posts for some gaming tips and found something I didn't like. I found flirtacious comments to 2 virtual females a few months after we started our relationship in 2008. Now, this was almost a year ago and I ...
A. 7 July 2009: Wow don't you think you're over-reacting just a tad?! My advice is not bring it up to your boyfriend and to try to get past it. It was a year ago and he hasn't been flirting since so you should be able to let it go. You also might want to look into ... (read in full...)
In my 30's and still single and the future's not looking so bright either...
Q. Is it strange being 30+ and never having a boyfriend and never being kissed . I have had a lot of rejection by guys and still paying after 11 yaers. I am very shy, quiet, low self estreem. I am also overweight, short, plain looking and not great pe...
A. 7 July 2009: My my how long has it been?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend that drinks too much!
Q. I am crazy about my boyfriend but he drinks too much. have told him I dont want to be around him when he drinks because he is really unpleasant and he always argues with me. we had a row a few days ago because he was drunk now he ignoring me and ...
A. 2 July 2009: Does your boyfriend think he drinks too much? If not, then you are in for a very rough time.... (read in full...)
My family relationships are falling apart!
Q. Ever since my boyfriend moved back to my home town. I've been rebelling with my family. My family doesn't approve, so ever since then my mom has been trying to keep me on a leash, so I rebel even more. She changed my curfew an hour less, and a...
A. 2 July 2009: You can mend your relationship by obeying her rules and keeping a civil tongue in your head. In this case, it really is her way or the highway. If, over time, she can begin to trust you again then maybe she'll be inclined to loosen the rules up a ... (read in full...)
What are the best ways to act when you know your crush is watching you?
Q. What are the best ways to act when you know your crush is watching you? I know that sometimes my crush watches me when we are in lessons or when we're in the same corridor and it might sound a little creepy to some but it's fine with me.... I just d...
A. 2 July 2009: Is your "crush" your teacher by any chance?... (read in full...)
We've tried everything we can think of, but I just can't get pregnant!
Q. hi guys , i have been married for 2 years and trying to concieve for 1 year and half but no luck . we have tried different positions . but i want to know whats the best position for getting pregnant ? and can i still get pregnant if i'm on top or...
A. 2 July 2009: I bet you get knocked up on vacation...anyone want a piece of the action? Not that action..or piece..oh hell you know what I mean....... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my BF and risk the social awkwardness or say no?
Q. My boyfriend has just invited me out to a "works night out". He has just started working at the place. This is the first time i have been invited to one, normally he doesn't bother asking. I would love to go but i am a bit worried about a couple of ...
A. 2 July 2009: Unless you plan on living the rest of your life in a cave, you will be obligated to occasionally attend functions such as this. The more experience you have socially, will make you more comfortable. You may find that you actually look forward to ... (read in full...)
My mom won't let me get a second piercing ...
Q. I am 13 and I have one ear peircing on each earlobe. But on my left ear I want a second peircining t the top ( a little silver ring) and my mom would never agree. I am not the kind of girl that would go behind her back and get one nd either way she ...
A. 2 July 2009: FYI my remark was to xxpassionxx.... (read in full...)
Should I do unpaid, volunteer work to help my c.v.?
Q. hi i am a first year student, 21 years old and I am now off Uni for the Summer and looking for PART-TIME work i cant seem to find a job in my town. I have applied everywhere but they say although Im well educated I dont have retail experienc...
A. 2 July 2009: Yep any work experience, paid or unpaid helps. Sometimes permanent jobs come from volunteer work. Anyway it beats sitting around doing nothing. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My mom won't let me get a second piercing ...
Q. I am 13 and I have one ear peircing on each earlobe. But on my left ear I want a second peircining t the top ( a little silver ring) and my mom would never agree. I am not the kind of girl that would go behind her back and get one nd either way she ...
A. 2 July 2009: Right so following your logic let's ask a one year old if he needs a diaper change. There's a damn good reason parents were invented.... (read in full...)
What can I get for my boyfriend's moms birthday?
Q. Hello, it will soon in a days time be my boyfriends mom's birthday, i really dont know what to get her, i have asked her but she has not said anything, just like what he does, they always say they want nothing but i cant found nothing.... Lol... ...
A. 2 July 2009: We old ladies love to get bath oil, bubble bath stuff, etc. it softens our wrinkled old skin.... (read in full...)
What can we talk about? I need some help because I really want to go out with him again!
Q. hello. i REALLY need some help. I've liked this boy for about 6months and we have been boyfriend and girlfriend a few times. we really like each other. well i think he does anyway. his friends says he always speaks about me, and sometimes he goes ...
A. 2 July 2009: What does "we have been boyfriend and girlfriend a few times" mean exactly? And did you click on the correct age bracket?... (read in full...)
Is this relationship ever going to go anywhere? Opinions needed!
Q. I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. We live about 2 hours away from each other, so we only get to see each other on the weekends. We were both separated when we started dating. I’m now divorced, but he is still in the ...
A. 2 July 2009: First, I wouldn't move if I were you. Second, I would try to stay busy, go out with friends, and when you are ready, start dating other men. Perhaps if he knows you aren't just sitting around waiting for him it will put a little fire in his belly ... (read in full...)
Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else?
Q. Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else? This year, he's given me full credit (twice) for an answer that I put, and half to the rest of the class who wrote the same answer. He's also thrown papers to everyone else bu...
A. 2 July 2009: I know you want us to tell you that this teacher is madly in love with you. You are crushing big time and as you can see by all the postings your situation is more than a little common. If your teacher is truly unfairly grading his papers and tests ... (read in full...)
Can pre cum make you pregnant?
Q. What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?...
A. 1 July 2009: yes and yes... (read in full...)
I'm scared my boyfriend will object to the dress I've bought.
Q. We are invited to a 4th of July party, and I bought a rather modest (in length) strapless summer frock, which shouldn't be a problem except my bf is very particular about what I wear, and I am afraid he will somehow object to this dress!! He also ...
A. 1 July 2009: What should you do? You should go out right this minute and rent the movie "Sleeping with the Enemy". Watch it.... (read in full...)
He wants me to get a six pack!!!! Why would he want me to look more muscular? I'm a female for pities sake!
Q. My husband does not want it at all when I try to instigate it. He has no sex drive at all. Our sex life used to be fairly active, but now it's non-existent. I've tried everything to get him interested: I wore sexy lingerie, I've dressed up for h...
A. 1 July 2009: Get a six pack and tape it to your abdomen (unchilled preferably) then your best cast iron frying pan and use it upside his head. He's being ridiculous. ... (read in full...)
Things weren't perfect, but this cat issue is pushing me over the edge...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been living together for 5 months, without getting too deep, she has some medical issues, including some stress and anxiety issues. Shame on me for not really getting to understand the extent of these issues, but I'm ...
A. 1 July 2009: Get rid Buddy. It's high time she starts taking care of herself. You'll actually be doing her a big favor by breaking this off.... (read in full...)
How can someone be incapable of loving?
Q. My boyfriend told me that he doesn't want to be with me because he isn't capable of truely loving anyone and doesn't want to hurt me. He also doesn't want to have sex with me because he knows I will end up getting hurt. I think that my boyfriend ...
A. 1 July 2009: I agree that he's just trying to let you down gently, too gently apparently. Since this relationship is pretty one sided, friendship may be impossible. You can give the friends bit a try but it may just turn out to be too painful for you.... (read in full...)
Does my cousin care about me or did she just want sex?
Q. hey I am 16teen years of age an i need to hear what you think.i have this cousin .She and i are well close friends.here's the story.we had to go to our uncles wedding and me and her were at the back of her mom's car and we were talking.she asked me ...
A. 1 July 2009: "what type of person you think she is?" A tipsy horny person come to mind. I think you should regard this incident as an isolated one.... (read in full...)
Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else?
Q. Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else? This year, he's given me full credit (twice) for an answer that I put, and half to the rest of the class who wrote the same answer. He's also thrown papers to everyone else bu...
A. 1 July 2009: How do you know he doesn't do this for other students? Are you in his class all day?... (read in full...)
Things weren't perfect, but this cat issue is pushing me over the edge...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been living together for 5 months, without getting too deep, she has some medical issues, including some stress and anxiety issues. Shame on me for not really getting to understand the extent of these issues, but I'm ...
A. 1 July 2009: Not a quitter just need to move on. Why keep beating a dead horse? Your relationship just ain't cutting it for you so it's time to end it. She may have issues but that really is her responsibility to deal with them. I think you've been very ... (read in full...)
Unless I shave all my body hair, she won't have sex!
Q. My girlfriend has pretty much made it clear that she will refuse to have any sexual relations with me unless i shave of all of my body hair. I have never had to do this and it makes me a little uneasy. Is this normal for some girls to hate hair this ...
A. 1 July 2009: I agree with Daniel, this is sexual blackmail and she'll pull this on you anytime she feels so inclined. Wait for the next bus.... (read in full...)
Wives who let their husbands cheat!
Q. Alot of blogs are about married men and their mistress hurting the wife. What about the wives who let their husbands cheat? I will share my story. I was dealing with a married man for almost 2 years. I known him for 4 years. He chased me for 2 ye...
A. 1 July 2009: She didn't "let" him cheat she just didn't call him on it. A subtle difference. She sounds like she cares about her marriage more than you think. And what's up with "He impregnated me on purpose." if he didn't rape you then where was your ... (read in full...)
I get jealous when she flirts and our sex has dwindled!
Q. I am a 35 year old recently divorced father of 3 young kids and have been in a loving relationship with a 20 year old girl for the last 6 months. I love this girl to bits, she makes me so happy and has given me endless support and love, more t...
A. 1 July 2009: Jealousy doesn't stem from loving someone intensely it comes from low self-esteem and/or the need to control. You need to do some soul searching on what it is that you need to address to alleviate the problem. As far as the sex life, I agree that ... (read in full...)
Left with the tattoo, but not him!
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for like about three years, about five months ago, we got matching tattoos. I got his initals and he got mine. We both got it on the back of our neck. Now we are broken up and I am trying to get over it but everytime I ...
A. 1 July 2009: Only date guys who have the same initials as your ex. Problem solved, unless of course his name was Quentin Xavier.... (read in full...)
He sent an email saying it was time to move on, but he's just told me he still loves me! So confusing!
Q. hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they ...
A. 1 July 2009: He may want you to stick around after he's married but why would you settle for that? Like I said before there really is no future with this guy. Try to stay busy and move on.... (read in full...)
He sent an email saying it was time to move on, but he's just told me he still loves me! So confusing!
Q. hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they ...
A. 30 June 2009: I really doesn't matter WHY he called you that many times, there is no future here. It's unfortunate that you work right across the street from him but you must try to put all this behind you now. It will get easier for you, keep your chin up.... (read in full...)
He sent an email saying it was time to move on, but he's just told me he still loves me! So confusing!
Q. hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they ...
A. 29 June 2009: He's stringing you along, maybe for a new role as the bit on the side. You know he won't marry you so why waste another precious second on the guy? Cut all communication with him and move on with your life.... (read in full...)
We've tried everything we can think of, but I just can't get pregnant!
Q. hi guys , i have been married for 2 years and trying to concieve for 1 year and half but no luck . we have tried different positions . but i want to know whats the best position for getting pregnant ? and can i still get pregnant if i'm on top or...
A. 17 June 2009: After sex don't get up right away, elevate your legs and stay there for a few minutes. Also have BOTH of you been checked out by a physician? Sometimes a guy can have a vein that heats his scrotum just a tad too much and it kills the sperm. Once ... (read in full...)
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