I went to far with my adoptive sister while drunk and now she hates me
Q. i cant believe im doing this, but here goes. Well, when i was 5, my dad was an alcoholic. He killed himself after he killed my mom. A year after the funeral i was adopted. I guess my childhood memories made me who i am right now. Im an alcoholic, im ...
A. 15 July 2009: Start attending AA meetings. Maybe once she sees you are trying to get your life under control and are off the sauce, she will forgive you.... (read in full...)
After 8 months I still haven't gotten the courage the ask her out
Q. Hi, I am wondering if you can help. See there's this girl in work who i've admired from a distance but have not had the courage to go over and talk to her, this has been going on for about 8 months. You see I never have any dealings with her so I...
A. 15 July 2009: Listen Ralph, you don't want to be wondering "what if..." just walk up to her and ask her if she would like to go get a cup of coffee sometime. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Go for it, Buddy.... (read in full...)
How do I find a decent guy who doesn't just want sex?
Q. My exboyfriend and I broke up like 3 years ago. But I havent have any other serious relation ever since. I just feel that I dont trust guys. Every guy that I meet they just want to be friends with benefits. How can I find a good decent guy who is ...
A. 15 July 2009: All you can do is to just keep looking. Just remember not to put out until you have established a relationship. There are guys out there so hang in there.... (read in full...)
If you'd had a baby through a brief affair would you tell anyone?
Q. If you'd had a baby through a brief affair would you tell anyone? either confide in a friend or tell the biological father? would you be guilty and tell all eventually or keep this a secret forever? ...
A. 15 July 2009: What are the blood types involved? Sometimes that is a dead give away. Also what if there is a genetic medical condition so parentage is important? This isn't the kind of secret you can take to the grave anymore.... (read in full...)
I can only have sex a couple of times a day - is this normal?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for four years and it's been good but we can only have sex once or twice a day as i get sore is this normal? Sometimes if we don't have sex for a week or so and we try and have it i will be sore so we have to kee...
A. 15 July 2009: Twice a day eh?...let's see if I can remember back in the day...yep sounds totally normal. Of course you could try to up it to 4 or 5 times a day and see if you can build some callous. Have fun..sigh... (read in full...)
Please help me put my mind to rest, do you think he meant what he said to me?
Q. Hey:) i'd just like an opinion on this please of what you think is going on. I've liked this lad for nearly 2 years and everyone thought he liked me. It was obvious he did but nothing was ever done, i was very shy and also this girl who also liked ...
A. 15 July 2009: If he ever had feelings for you in the past he sure didn't show it very well. I think you can consider friendship as far as this ever can go. But I'm not sure I'd even want him as a friend to tell you the truth. But no matter what it's time to get ... (read in full...)
If you'd had a baby through a brief affair would you tell anyone?
Q. If you'd had a baby through a brief affair would you tell anyone? either confide in a friend or tell the biological father? would you be guilty and tell all eventually or keep this a secret forever? ...
A. 15 July 2009: How can you keep having a baby a secret? Do you mean you are passing off as your husband/boyfriend's baby when it's not?... (read in full...)
I have a lazy bf and pay for everything HELP!
Q. My boyfriend has no job, no money and won't make an effort to even try to get a job. He'd rather smoke pot, I take us out everywhere we go.. I pay! Im tired of it.. How do I convince him to get a job?... I mean he loves me and is there for me but I ...
A. 15 July 2009: Sorry but if he isn't the very definition of a moocher I'm sure I don't know what is. People are only taken advantage of because they allow it. If you are really sick of it then stop being his meal ticket otherwise he has absolutely no incentive to ... (read in full...)
I think my fiance is messing around with my mom
Q. dear agony aunt please can u give me some much needed advice. where do i start. i have had my suspicions for a long time now tht my fiance whom im due to marry this year has bn having it off with my mother. i havnt actually caught thm in the act but ...
A. 15 July 2009: Are you totally sure you've recovered completely? Postnatal depression can be very serious and does cause paranoia in some women. However, if you are truly better then I guess I'd start with a long talk my fiance.... (read in full...)
Did she want to talk to me?
Q. I go 3 times a week with my mum to the hospital so she can have her dialysis. There's this girl in the dialysis unit she runs a exercise program she keeps looking at me and when i look back she turns away (i asked on here before about her doing ...
A. 15 July 2009: You're a big boy, ask her if she'd like to get a cup of coffee.... (read in full...)
Is it possible that I'm pregnant from this?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I did oral sex yesterday. We didn't *** or orgasm at all but before he fingered me He rubbed his penis (I doubt he had pre-*** because before that gave a hand job and it wasn't wet or anything) then I gave him a ******** but ...
A. 15 July 2009: Ha ha Uncle Phil..or should I say h* h*... (read in full...)
Does spanish fly drops work?
Q. can anyone tell me if spanish fly drops realy work on women? Should you recomend it?...
A. 15 July 2009: Jetta you've posted some other very disturbing questions in the past. If you can't get laid without resorting to pharmaceuticals or voodoo then it's best you keep that shower on cold.... (read in full...)
He called the police on me because I wouldn't shut up
Q. My boyfriend is 20 years old then me and set in his way along with being a cross-dresser. he broke up with me said he is tried of me and I have been seeing him for 15 years. I've always known about his uniqueness and love him so much. He said he ...
A. 14 July 2009: I think she is talking about a 60 to 70 year old cross dresser, rcn. That's my take on it anyway.... (read in full...)
How can I make things different when I go down on him?
Q. My man wants to go down on me while sucking an ice cube, I love the idea but I want to return the favour and do something different when I go down on him. Any ideas?...
A. 14 July 2009: How about sucking on a jalopeno?... (read in full...)
I get really jealous, how do I stop?
Q. I'm a super jealous person when it comes to my boyfriend. How do I stop? I'm extremely upset my boyfriend is talking to his ex-girlfriends little sister. We all went to the same high school. It's hurting me....
A. 14 July 2009: Jealous people usually have one thing in common, low self-esteem. How's yours?... (read in full...)
Why do boys like touching girls' breasts? Should I let him do it?
Q. Hi, everyone. I've been dating this guy for about 7 months and we make out quite often.. Sometimes when we're kissing he would put his hand underneath my shirt and start touching my boobs.. I get really upset and i'll show it to him.. Should i let ...
A. 14 July 2009: Dirty????... (read in full...)
He wants to be with me, but he doesn't want to leave his wife and kids
Q. i am hoping you can help with my dilemma. about 15 months aho i started seeing my boss from work. we had only been seeing each other fr a week when we left our partners, the click that we felt as that strong. anyway, he only managed to stay the ...
A. 14 July 2009: Wow, what a jerk. I don't think he has much of anything going on in his head and who the hell cares what he wants? As far as what he thinks of you, actions speak louder than words now don't they. Time for you to actually get a life.... (read in full...)
Am I getting the "brush off" here?
Q. I met this girl recently - really got on well, just in a social sense. I don't rate myself too highly (I'm not good looking and am partially disabled, though this doesn't always show to people who don't know) and she is exceptionally good looking. ...
A. 14 July 2009: Trust me...it's a brush off.... (read in full...)
We want to get married, but she's still married..and there are many other factors causing trouble in this relationship!
Q. I am 38 yrs old and have two children, 13 and 11 and I live with my dad. I have been divorced for 6 ½ years. My girlfriend of 10 years is 46 yrs old and is still married. She has two children, 21 and 17. She recently moved out after only 2 ½ ...
A. 13 July 2009: She's not your wife. You hardly go to couples counseling with someone else's wife. You've been played, my man. ... (read in full...)
I get performance anxiety when sleeping with someone for the first time. Would Viagra help? Should I try it?
Q. i get really bad performance anxiety when im with someone new for the first time. it stops me getting an ersction. ive met a girl and feel like im really falling for her. would it be a good idea to use viagra for the first time I sleep with her? I ...
A. 13 July 2009: Sorry it my understanding that Viagra or any of the ED medicines will not CAUSE an erection, they only help SUSTAIN one. So if you can't get it up to begin with, Viagra won't be any help.... (read in full...)
Does he have real feelings & is scared? Or just likes the fwb thing?
Q. I have been in a friends with benifits relationship for 3 years now. we have been friend for 25 years. we spend all our free time together. every night and on weekends. he says he doesnt ever want to be in love again after a bad divorce. he knows ...
A. 10 July 2009: I think the question you should be asking is "what do I want?". If you want more than he's willing to give, then I guess you have your answer. It's up to you whether you are willing to settle for less than what you truly desire.... (read in full...)
What's worse ? being a slut or being 40 years old virgin ?
Q. What is better either having sex with many people or keep virginity until you're way too old ? What do you think ?...
A. 10 July 2009: Why the two extremes? Neither sounds good to me.... (read in full...)
Can a person totally change their personality?
Q. Can people change personalities over 10 years; like be different in personality and not the same person? can people ?...
A. 10 July 2009: Or better yet...depends.... (read in full...)
Would a guy still have sex with a girl even if he thought she sucked in bed?
Q. Would a guy still have sex with a girl even though he thought she sucked in bed? Or because he thinks she sucks would he completely turn it down?...
A. 10 July 2009: There are guys who screw sheep, what does that tell you?... (read in full...)
Can a person totally change their personality?
Q. Can people change personalities over 10 years; like be different in personality and not the same person? can people ?...
A. 10 July 2009: This is a very ambiguous question so my answer is yes.... (read in full...)
Should I believe a Married Man?
Q. About a month ago I was out havin drinks with a friend of mine. we met two guys at a bar and started havin great convo. at the end of the nite we kissed and i got his number 2 days later i sent him a text and 2 days later i got a response. later on ...
A. 10 July 2009: Here's what you will never experience together with your married man: no Christmas Day, no Thanksgivings, no Valentine's Days, no children (if you do get knocked up the kid won't have access to Daddy 24-7), no enitre family get togethers or ... (read in full...)
I'm much older than him and he's interested and I want to make his first time memorable
Q. I live alone, and there's a boy in my neighborhood who helps me out with odd jobs. He turned 18 two months ago. He's leaving for college in September and has been nervous about the whole thing. We were talking about it recently. I told him not ...
A. 9 July 2009: Why can't I stop thinking about Rod Stewart..and somebody named...Maggie?... (read in full...)
Does this make me a slut even though I'm drunk?
Q. Heyy So I have this problem where when I get drunk I'll hook up with random guys and most of the time are alot older than me. Does it make me a slut to hook up with random people even though I'm drunk?? ...
A. 9 July 2009: You may not be an alcoholic now but like any drug, alcohol is addictive physically and/or emotionally. Just be very careful, it really sounds to me like you are inviting trouble.... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of me and call me fat...but I'M NOT FAT!
Q. ok so. Pretty much all of my friends are non stop making fun of me for being fat. BUT IM NOT FAT! When im not there they talk about how fat i am and draw pictures of how fat i am. dont say theyre jealous cus theyre all skinnier than me. but im still ...
A. 9 July 2009: In that case I'd say you've wasted 6 years on these brats, don't waste a minute more.... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: Are you sure Tish? I've dealt with dyslexics and her posts look like angry typing mixed with bad English .... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: It was GinsengMeow's excellent response that made me feel the need to expose "Willow". I hate it when an aunt spends their precious time with a very well-thought out response all for naught.... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: Understand how she feels??? Hell, I can barely understand what she WRITES!... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: Watch out Tish, you'll get hate mail like I just did, ZOWIE this little gal is mighty angry!... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: UPDATE: The poster hates the entire male RACE (I thought it was a gender) and yours truly.... (read in full...)
Late night texts.....does it mean anything?
Q. hello, Three days ago, a guy texted to me at 3 am if I have a boyfriend. I answered later No.The guy who texted me did not text me or phone me till now. What shall I do? Is he interested or not? I can't forget him. Please help me, what shall I ...
A. 9 July 2009: Wait and see if he contacts you again. If he texted you at 3 a.m. he might have just been in his cups looking for some sex. I certainly wouldn't read a whole lot into just yet.... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: This lovely lady shows up on DC every couple months with that same old rant. Best let her just stew.... (read in full...)
I hate having these negative feelings about women and it's consuming me....
Q. Hi where do i start. Im a 27 year old man and im really struggling with handling how much casual sex i see around me, though friends and people i meet out on a night out. Iv just come out of a long relationship almost 6 years. it was over due a...
A. 9 July 2009: Virginia is a lovely state, I just visited it or as you say "entered" it the other weekend. People ther are very friendly too.... (read in full...)
Why does she want to fight over everything?
Q. hey guys i'm a 27 yr old man with an 42 yr old woman she seems to wanna fight with me over every thing.i'm always being accused of cheating (never have though it's been 5 months)i love her,sex is good but i can't really stand all the fighting ...
A. 9 July 2009: You've answered your own question. She is afraid of losing you to another woman, most likely younger than she. Being 15 years older than your partner can be rather daunting to most women I would think. If you've done all you can do to shore up her ... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of me and call me fat...but I'M NOT FAT!
Q. ok so. Pretty much all of my friends are non stop making fun of me for being fat. BUT IM NOT FAT! When im not there they talk about how fat i am and draw pictures of how fat i am. dont say theyre jealous cus theyre all skinnier than me. but im still ...
A. 9 July 2009: How do you know they talk about how fat you are when you aren't around? Do they call you fat to your face? If it's all done behind your back, then I have a thought. Maybe just maybe THEY aren't the ones obsessing over how fat you are...maybe YOU ... (read in full...)
I dream about kissing a girl which end up getting food in my mouth
Q. everytime i have a dream that involves me kissing a girl, i kiss her and then i end up getting a bunch of material like food from her mouth into mine. why is that? i've never kissed a girl (unfortunately) if that matters. any thoughts or similar ...
A. 9 July 2009: Do you know where your pillow is?... (read in full...)
An Open Letter to All My Friends and Loved Ones....
Q. To All My Friends and Loved Ones.... It is time to say goodbye. My usefulness here is depleted. I have enjoyed every minute of it and have been so fortunate to meet the people I have! I may be back someday...I don't know for sure. But right ...
A. 9 July 2009: Hurry back...we'll be waiting for you!... (read in full...)
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