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female
age
30-35,
*atiemariex3
writes: So I have been dating this guy since February 5th and I just decided that I dont want to be together anymore. This guy freaks out on me for stupid stuff and whenever he has a bad day he takes it out on me and gets all angry. If I cant hang out with him he finds another girl to hang out with. I hear so many rumors that he is a player and he just yelled at me one time too many. I found another guy who is sweet and loving anyways. So I broke up with this guy and now he is trying to play the guilt trip on me. He started dating me after I broke up with a guy I had been together with for 2 yeras and he said that now he feels what I felt after going through that and he says he wants me as his girlfriend because I asked to just be friends. He is trying to make me feel guilty and I dont know what to do. Somebody help me :( Hes making me feel horrible. Did I make the wrong decision?
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (10 March 2010):
Listen to Caring Guy. He is so right! This guy is not good enough for you. Cut off contact with him.
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reader, TellMeAnything +, writes (10 March 2010):
Of course you did. Men like that only become more aggresive and demanding. You were smart to break it off. Even if you talk to him stand your ground and understand you don't want that for yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 March 2010):
No, you made entirely the right decision. This guy treated you like rubbish, and now that you dumped him is trying to guilt trip you into taking him back. That's not a good guy. You'd be better cutting contact altogether.
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