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writes:heyy everyone so heres what happening. okay so me and my friend had a bet that if she made the volleyball team then she had to ask out the guys she likes. and if she didnt make the team i had to tell the guy i liked that i liked him. well sad news she didnt make the team. and now i have to tell him how i feel im super nervous and idk wat to say hes my bestfriend and i dont wanna lose our friend ship over this and i am completely lost. so to sum it up my question is wat do i do i have to tell him but idk know what to say or if i'll lose my friend ship so plz plz help thxzP.s. alot of my friend think he like me back didnt know if that would help or not Reply to this Question
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reader, wishingheknew +, writes (4 April 2010):
wishingheknew is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnow because i dont know y are friednship is totally gone. it might b4 the better but idk we used to be best friends now we cant talk with out one of us telling the other to shut up im totally over that jer
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (12 March 2010):
 Talk to him in person. You shouldn't have texted him, even though it felt like the easy way to go about things. You need to catch him after school or at lunch to talk things over with him. You'll never know how he feels about things if you don't ask.
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reader, wishingheknew +, writes (11 March 2010):
wishingheknew is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot guys! well i txted him yesterday and told him i liked him. and all of today he was avoding me and barely talking to me we usually talk a bunch. so i txted him a bit ago and siad it was all a joke but he hasnt replyed. he never replys anyway but do u guys think that our friendship is like totally gone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): i agree with 'katy did'. it was just a bet, dont ask him unless you really want to. if u do wanna ask him, and you think he likes u back, i say go for it. guys are pretty laid back n like it if ur honest. so if u tell him how u feel n that u understand if he doesnt feel that way, u just think he deserves to know..... or something like that.u could tell him ur nervous and dont want to ruin your friendship, he should understand:)
yeah, its a really scary situation, i've been there. . .if ur friends, im sure u'll figure a way of getting through it together. who knows, he might feel the same way afterall!:)
i know its all easier said then done, but its alot easier than u expect. its only as easy as u make it! just remember, u dont have to do anything u dont want to.
hope i helped, good luck!
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (10 March 2010):
Do you really want to risk a friendship over a silly bet? Don't tell him because you "have" to. Only if YOU really want to. Do you like him enough to risk this friendship you have with him? If you do decide you want to tell him, tell him in person. Pull him aside and tell him you have something you want to say to him. Let him know how you feel and see what he does. Go from there. I understand it's a lot easier said than done(I was a pretty shy kid in high school) but just have confidence in yourself. You are already friends with this boy so it shouldn't be too difficult to have a conversation alone.
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