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*abygirl99
writes:I kick my ex boyfriend out going on about a week ago. Sense I did that he calls everyday all day texing me all day and it drives me crazy !!!!! The problem is we didn't get alone and all we did was fuss while we were living together. He doesn't have a place of his own no car are anything but he does have a job. Sense he moved out he just won't leave me alone asking me to bring him this place that place sits on the phone nagging that he has to sleep on the streets. His 37 yrs old and doesn't have his shit together ! His been begging to come back when I told him I need space and the only reason his begging to come bac because he has no where to go ! Please help me get him out of my life his to needy !!! When I don't answer he just calls back to back ! He works near me so he can see if my car is parked and when I'm home what do I do !!!!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Interesting to bad you didnt give more backstory, if this guy depended on you so mutch why would he put himself in a position where you would kick him out, You didnt even say what he did besides not getting along and fussing lol hmm and you kiked him out over that you couldnt resolve it huh.
This sounds strange and you say he has a job and he cant get an apartement does he have any family actually i think there are some laws when it comes to kicking some one out like that, i guess he rather nag you then read a book. any ways i think you should try and reconcile i would even go out on a limb and say he must love you in some way to stick around it could be he just wants a ride or someplace to stay but it doesnt sound likely lol in his own strange way probably has feelings for you, and instead of you two working thungs out you kiked him out but hey i could be wrong
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2010): honey its past time to screen your calls. just dont respond to his calls or texts. it will take time but he surely has family or friends or someone. if nothing else he can call a local shelter or church. dont give in or you will never be rid of him. block him if you can. time for tough love, at 37 its waaaaay past time for him to take responsibility for himself. good luck, mal
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reader, ashlydance33 +, writes (9 March 2010):
 He's 37. He need's to realize that he can't rely on other people for support. He is an adult! He needs to start acting like one. If he has a job, then nothing should stop him from finding another place, if he really applies himself. Don't give in, you won't be doing this 37 year old child any favors. If he keeps calling and texting after you have laid out your boundries, try blocking his number. If he keeps bothering you after that, threaten him with a restraining order. If he persists, follow trhough on the threat. But word from the wise, if you have anything that belongs to him, not to both of you but just him, then give it back. Don't give him any other reasons to keep bothering you. Best of luck!
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