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writes:I met this guy through a friend of mine, ive only sopken 2 him on facebook and from what we have spoken about he seems a really nice guy,the reason why my friend said add him was because he was single, Anyway since then we chat on fb every day day i emailed my number and he emailed me his so thought yeah great someone i could see myself with in a relationship Then after talking 2 my friend yesterday she said ask him if he wants 2 meet up,I hesatated a bit but in the end through fb chat i asked him saying look its up to you if you do want 2 meet im not forcing you to ask i wasnt sure what he did actually think of me But then he replys yeah i dont mind meeting you but im kinda seeing someone at the moment with a sad face on the end,So i replied lol well thats up 2 you then... But deep down i was kinda gutted he had told me this. And now i feel a complete twat for asking him if he did want 2 meet. I would like 2 carry on talking 2 him but i would like more out of this. Friends say just keep doing so u never no what happens in the near future Should i carry on talking 2 him??? Was i a twat for asking this? All i want is a nice guy to have fun with and i thought he may be that guy.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 You weren't wrong to ask. You didn't know whether he had someone. You can still talk to him, if both of you are mature enough. Don't worry and be happy.
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reader, The Corporate Casanova  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 Personally, I blame peer pressure and misinformation.
Anyways, I think you should see other people who are really single. Or if you decide to stick to the guy you love, then you should try to share some interests. But if your interests don't even match his by a long shot, then fret no longer; there's plenty more fish in the Sea of Facebook (let's just hope that you just don't bump into some largemouth bass, lol). :)
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reader, weparley +, writes (9 March 2010):
You gotta give this guy some credit. At least he was honest to say he was seeing someone. (MOST) guys wouldn't had said a damn thing about there current status and would have took the offer. "There's nothing better for a female to asked the guy out." (It's rare)
Don't feel so bad. and a lil advice..."Let him write/call/text you. Don't show that you're intersted so much. "REDUCE/CALL BACK" ...Like the economy LOL!
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (9 March 2010):
 Hey. Don't feel like a twat. You were just talking to him, you couldn't have know he was seeing someone. I'd leave thinking about him as a romantic possibility for now, as he has said he's seeing someone. But there's no harm in still talking to him, as you get on. Just don't get you're hopes up too much. It's true you never know what might happen in the future. Things might end with the girl he's seeing now and you might have an oppertunity there to ask him out again. But then again, it might be serious with this girl. So, for now, look elsewhere. You're young and there's pleanty more single guys out there.
Good luck :)
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