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writes:So I'm going to be fifteen this may and the guy that I'm in love with(18 years old) says he loves me too. I've loved him for two years now and never even thought he'd love me back. Well his brother loves me too. He says he's had feelings for me since a little after we met and that he loves me and doesn't want to lose me. But i don't know if he truly means it...he can never hang out with me he's always busy. the only way i can get him to answer a text is if i ask him a question. i don't know what to believe anymore. our friends tell me he said he never liked me and that he was just messing around with me. but then he says its because of our age difference and because his brother's in love with me still and not to believe what people say. he also said after that, that he loves me from the bottom of his heart and that he's sorry that he's hurting me with the lies he tells other people but he's confused and doesn't know what else to do... I know he's older and has a job but everyday we talk less and less and it really bothers me..but i don't want to sound immature if i tell him that i'm sick of him not answering my texts or IMs...it hurts me a lot because i love him that much..and i dont know what to do i dont want to lose him... help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh & he's 19 sorry. i must have typed an 8 instead of a 9.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks but i know he doesn't just want sex because he's one of best friends and he's into that whole no sex until marriage thing. thanks for trying to help. & im almost 15 but i know its still a slightly large age gap.
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (10 March 2010):
 I know you're not going to want to hear this, but don't get involved with an 18 year old. You're only 14. He might seem like a smart older guy who's mature and has it all figured out...But take it from me. I go to school with guys that age. Most of them want one thing. Don't get taken advantage of. If he really loved you as you say, he would answer your texts and he wouldn't be lying about you. Forget him. And his brother.
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