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writes:My boyfriend has a lot of friends, mostly guys, but some of them girls. There is one girl he is really close to, and I think he talks to her pretty much every day. He has known her for two years, and him and I have been dating for one year. She does have a boyfriend, but these days something like that doesn't matter to some girls who are flirts. I don't know if they flirt, he hangs out with her sometimes without me, and I don't know if I should worry or not. I don't want to be hurt now, I'd rather do something about it now rather than later. I would rather not ask him about it, because I have had insecurity problems before...
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reader, mischieviousangel916 +, writes (18 March 2010):
Talk to him about how you feel. Also, why is he hanging out with her if he's got you? It seems funny and disrespectful. Something's going on.I would be uncomfortable if my man was being close to a female and hanging out with her. Set some boundaries, sweetheart.Good luck.
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reader, lola29  +, writes (9 March 2010):
hmm, this is really not surprising, find a way to see how they talk to each other, if it gets too suspicious you're going to have to mention it to him. Very lightly though, I have been in the same situation and i probably still am but i try to get over it day by day, i always try to think positive and push away the insecurities that comes with the whole relationship deal.He is with you isnt he? Look, think about it, is he only allowed to hang out with guys? you can't honestly think you're the only female he's always surrounded by and talk to. I mean they are friends and unfortunately to you, shes a female. What makes you think she is a flirt btw? I talk to alot of attached guys almost everyday or quite often, and its never flirty. try being friends with someone of the opposite sex just to see if he;d be real jealous, talk to a guy friend maybe he'd come up with a good plan or maybe find out things for you in a less embarassing way. Communication is seriously "key" to relationship satisfaction and happiness. which then leads to "trust" which, in my opinion, the hardest you'd come by.
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