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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:By ex broke up with me about a month ago She caught me in a stupid little white lie about hanging out with my best friend. I still have strong feelling for her I can't let go..... So we've decide to stay friends, gave her a week of space, call and text very little, never came around, our friendship went along, we slept together a few times, we were both really drunk the first time. But just this last week she seems to be giving signs she still wants me like when I go over to her place she begs me to stay longer. wednesday she invited me out to eat with her roommates, all was fine we went back to her house and watch movies. I tried to leave, got puppy dog eyes from her so I stayed. She wanted me to lay with her till she fell asleep, one thing led to another and we had sex. kinda felt weird for me due to the feelings I have but afterwards I layed with her till she slept. Friday they invited me over to drink, hang out was great fun we partied tell 6am, I crashed on the couch, at 10am she came and asked me to lay with her again which I did, I'm a cuddler. Sat is where I get confused I gave her a Ride home from a friends house, I hung out with her and her roomate both ex strippers rememsing about old times and dancing, she asked me to stay with her and hold her, i did, she had to work at 10am we went to bed about 4am. Now it was ok till she called me hers, now it was a thing while we were dating I called her mine she was mine and I don't share, she called me hers so to hear her say that made me wonder. Pretty much for the last week I've spent most my free time with her again just like when we were together so my question is does she still care for me and maybe want me back or just head games. I'm looking for love and I did love her, just never told her so and we only dated for three months but we both move fast.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 Sounds like she still loves you. I doubt she is playing games, with you not contacting her for a while she missed you. If you love her tell her that, if you dont or are unsure then wait longer to find out for sure.
Listen to what she has to say, dont judge her and get a good balance of seeing her and having your own life.
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