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writes:I'm sure most have felt it..... you meet one of your 2nd..3rd cousins and before you realize hes your cousin you think hes cute, funny, and an all together good guy. Then the dreaded thing happens, turms out your related. I met my 2nd cousin back in May, thought he was sunny and such, but didnt persue. Well I got to go visit him and the rest of the family for the weekend again last weekend and now all I can think about his freaking him. Part of me is like what are you thinking and then after i read all the post/blogs im realizing im not the first person with this issue. I've been home 2 days and both days we have spent texting each other. The worst part is i have a wonderful boyfriend and i feel guilty! ...... maybe it'll wear off im not sure, but as of now hes all i can think about and im counting down til summer when i go to visit again. Any support or advise is quite welcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): If you're second cousins, big deal...BUT, if it's a crush, it's just that, a crush.. If you say you have a wonderful boyfriend, is it worth ruining your relationship to be with a crush, which you could grow out of anytime? You may or may not regret it later on, so choose well.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (10 March 2010):
 agree with marieclaire.
your young and hormones are raging this guy may be cute but he could turn out to be a jerk, is it worth just stick wth your bf and be happy
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 I don't really see the problem (except for your boyfriend). A second cousin isn't a close enough relation to be illegal, it's not particularly genetically risky. Now if your family isn't comfortable with the idea that is indeed an issue.
You're being emotionally unfaithful to your b/f -- that's the real issue you have to deal with.
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