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writes:My ex and I just broke up a few days ago.... i saw his facebook that he reactivated right after i moved into my own place (I used to live at his moms) Then I saw him talking to girls... I confronted him... and he said that he needs to find himself and can't be in a relationship right now. I gave so much to him and treated him like gold... but he always had a problem to move forward with me... he wouldnt move in even though we lived together already... and he started talking to girls. So I broke up with him... it was so hard because I still loved him very much... and now he blocked me on facebook... and msn... and is talking to other girls like its nothing! how can he move on so fast?? he called me after the day we broke up and wanted to talk and asked why i acted like i didnt care... i mean what was i supposed to do... i just didnt call him and cry... because i just kept busy... and then i felt confused like did he want to be with me or not? so i asked him one more time to make up his mind and he said he coudlnt right now and that he needed more time... but then instead of thinking he goes out and kicks me out of his life and moves on to other girls?!?!? i dont understand... why when i gave him everything he just throws it away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes your right i caught him a few times talking to girls online...and now he totally took me off facebook and msn...but he kept his account logged on my laptop and i saw him talking to his friends about new girls already...and adding his ex...so i guess he's moved on already...his family (brother and parents and brothers girlfriend) still come visit me and want to keep in touch with me...and he exploded about this saying I am stealing his family away and just using them to get to him...when I dont even talk about him really...I just became really close with them....Its getting better with time though...It just sucks to be the one that actually cared and got hurt...and he acts like nothing even happened between us and i was nobody.
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reader, Urbanbabe  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Thatis really disgusting on how hes treating you, its sounds to me like he may have been chatting to other girls when hes been with you behind your back, i am not saying he has he could have been.
My boyfriend has been chatting to a friend of mine while trying to make our relationship work and flirting as we split up few weeks ago and now we back on n giving it another go, but it hurts so much it really does.
I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and tell him you wanna make it work thats if you do.
If not then try and focus on somethin else, and keep busy it does take your mind off stuff.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 March 2010):
He moved on before you broke up. That's the point. He was never really there. His attitude was that you were there for fun, and nothing else. Just like all the other girls he is now talking to. There will be a guy out there worthy of your attention and love. And that guy will love you too. But let this one go. In a way doing what he has done has opened your eyes and was a good thing, though you know you were hurt, because you now know who he really is and you know he's not the on. Focus on your own life for now and really work hard ot move on.
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