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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years and we have been to 2nd base and I don't know if I'm intimidating him or what but he dosent seem interested in going any further. I've tried but he always makes up excuses to quit, I just want to go further.
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reader, babymonkey422 +, writes (11 March 2010):
Well it sounds to me that he's not ready to go further and doesn't know how to tell you that so you need to respect that :/ You might be ready and definitely willing but if he's not then you have to be patient and not pressure him. So just leave it be and don't try to pressure him or bring it up because when he's ready he'll let you know. Let him come to you so you know for sure he's ready and not just doing it because he felt pressured.
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