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female
age
36-40,
*1sha
writes:Hi,Following on from my last dilemma...for the past month we haven't even remotely touched on 'serious discussions'. We've been 'dating'..doing all the normal stuff like going to the seaside, going to the zoo and having meals. All very fun but a bit wierd as they seem such a backtrack from discussions about marriage and kids etc.My question is how long do I leave it since I told him I checked his email to start talking serious again or should I let him take the lead?Also, I left my phone out the other day whilst I was having a shower. When I came out he confronted me about a text from my ex-boyfriend that he had found on my phone. I had saved the text for some reason when I changed numbers last year but it was a deep message that the ex sent whilst we were breaking up saying stuff like 'you say you don't love me but I know that you do and you can still come back to me etc'.. It took a lot of explaining but he seemed content that it was from before we were dating. It's just that he laughed it off casually when I asked why he'd checked my phone and proceeded to ask what my online passwords were. Not sure how to interpret all this and would appreciate some help.Many thanks in advance,Aisha
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 wow umm your 25 or younger so A your to young for marriage B your to young for kids, as for the msg from the ex bf its your msg and none of his business really and he shouldnt be going through your stuff. He laughed it off casually im sure because what else can he do about it but i doubt he bought your story so he probably doesnt trust you and thats why he keeps putting off the whole marriage and kids thing he didnt fully trust you before he saw that txt and he definatly doesnt trust you now. But your two young to marry and way to young for kids and its obvious the guy your with is immature and not interested.
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