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writes: I just can't seem to work up the courage to ask any of the guys i like out, is that a result of insicurity or bad parenting? i know a lot of guys and some are even friendly on a daily basis. I want a real relationship! but im not the type of girl who dresses up in short skirts or dress clothes. (think baggy tshirts and tennis shoes) does anyone have any tips other than i need to change myself? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, ashlydance33 +, writes (9 March 2010):
You shouldn't have to change who you are juts to grab a guy. If you are patient, a guy will come along who loves you for who you are. Baggy t-shirts and all! In fact, there are guys out there who would actually prefer it that way.
However, do try to make an effort to look your best. Even if that just means keeping a great hygiene. And try to be more confident. Confidence is sexy. I've known some girls who have ROCKED baggy t-shirts because they were secure in who they are.
Hope this helps! And good luck =]
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