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writes:I recently wrote about being in a deadend relationship for the past 10 years. I have know this guy for 26 years. Been together 10 and have a 7 year old. Never met his mum or family. Do not live together. I have had enough. does not communicate well either.Met a guy who works pt at his families hairdressers. Sensed his sister had been setting us up. I backed of as I heard he had a way with women. Get on well with his mum. His whole family has a lot of respect for me.Over the months I have noticed how he stares at me. Last Saturday, I booked to do my hair with his sister. As I was finishing off he demanded to do my hair but his sister would not let him. she goes - whats going on between the two off us. He teaches full time and I said we are going to talk teacher stuff. The she goes - you want to marry my brother. Another hair dresser said there was a long list.I cant stop thinking about this guy. the only thing is that I know he has an illness that he has inhertited from him father. He is fine now. I do not want to be with him because of the illness, I like him as he is.How can i move this forward. I an enjoying the chase but would like things to move on.Any advise. His sister clearly can see there is some chesminstry and she goes - oh you will do for him!
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Your in your 40's and unmarried. If you like the new bloke, why don't you ask him out on a date. If he says no then you know he's not interested but if he says yes then see what happens. As for the father of your son, well if the relationship cannot be saved...end it.
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