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male
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36-40,
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writes: So about a month ago I became single for the first time in a while. I don't want to get into anything serious again right away. I met this girl Kelly and we're hitting it off really well. We've been hanging out because we're working on a film together. We've ended up making out a few times and I've hung out at her place a few times. We obviously like each other and I'm not 100% sure how to handle the whole situation. She and I haven't really talked about it at all and she isn't really indicating that she is going to come right out and talk about it. I don't know whether or not to talk to her about where this whole thing is heading or wait until it comes up. I'm also not sure exactly what I should say when it does come up. I really like her but we've only known each other a few weeks and I don't want to jump into anything. I don't want to lead her on but at the same time I want to make sure I know what I want out of the situation before I make a decision one way or the other.Let me just mention that I'm not overly distressed about this so no need for overly urgent answers. I'd just like some insight into what you guys think I should do, whether it's now, tomorrow or a while down the road.What do you think I should do? Reply to this Question Share |
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