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writes:ok so ive been going out with this guy for a month now and we went out last night with his mates, and he went to kiss me and i always close my eyes when kissing, but i had a look and he was looking around at his mates, and i cant help but think hes embarrassed about me. because the next time i looked and he looked at his mates again and stoped and laughed with them. and i felt like i was pushed aside.. do you think its just him being him or is this going to fade soon, or was it just meant to be me and him for kissing with no-one there... please help me, i really like this guy but i dont know what to do =[
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reader, Priincess +, writes (5 April 2011):
Im going through this problem at the moment and my boyfriend doesnt wanna kiss me infront of anyone so if i was you i would get him on his own and talk to him tell him how its making you feel i done that and now my boyfriend isnt embarssed to kiss me infront of his mates xxx good luck
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reader, caitlynDivaBear9 +, writes (10 March 2010):
Every things going to be fine don't worry because this happend to me before and i just talked to him and he realised i was worried about it and he was okay with it. This should be the same with you as if he dose not understand then he is not worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2010): i dont think hes embarrassed i think he is showing off. dump him fast. hes not serious...mal
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 Relax dear...maybe he is just as nervous as you probably would be kissing a guy in front of your friends. No doubt he was getting his chops busted later by his boys. Just relax and enjoy the time you spend together
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reader, trish19  +, writes (9 March 2010):
firstly i think that kissing is an intimate n private thing that one shares with their loved one or partner!...y did u even do it in front of his mates?....
n now that all this happened just talk it out with him n see wat his say is...n don't blow up at him just be all normal n ask him like a conversation...coz its best to hear it from the horse's mouth...don't just com to a conclusion that he's embarrassed of u or something like that...
relax it will b fine!....tc
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reader, tika  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 I know that my answer be not happy for you , but I must say it frankly . I think he isn't serious man, beacuse if he really wants to kiss you with all heart why should he looking at his friends and laughed?
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reader, brianna6037  +, writes (9 March 2010):
sometimes guys are jerks and like to make bets with guys about "who can kiss the girl first" and all that stuff, also maybe somebody had make a joke earlier about you kissing him and when you kissed him everybody remembered and laughed. I dont know? but you should confront him about it. hope that helped :)
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