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Self conscious about my vagina...

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Question - (9 March 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok well... im very self concious of my vagina... my husband thinks it's great... but i've noticed that my 'vagina lips' are a little farther apart than normal to me... and my clitoris is a little big... so is there anything i could do to help this... to make it sorta tighter and closer together?

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A female reader, el Lori United States +, writes (9 March 2010):

el Lori agony auntThere is nothing wrong with you. Vaginas come in all shapes and size just like penises. There have been many studies on the variations of vaginas and clitoris and trust me the variation is wide! There is no normal looking vagina :) you are fine and please dont get your vagina to look like medical text book with surgery. best of wishes!

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (9 March 2010):

C. Grant agony auntThere are plastic surgeons, particularly in California (surprise!) that specialize in reshaping genitalia. Personally I think it's a horrible idea. Any time I've ever been close enough to a vulva to see the sorts of "flaws" you're talking about, there's never been enough blood around my brain for me to actually notice. And I've never heard a man complain about the appearance of a woman's genitals. Ever.

BTW, if your clit is a bit big, hubbie has no excuse to not be able to find it. Enjoy!

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (9 March 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntPlease don't worry about physical appearance of sex organ, because sex pleasure is experienced by 'mind', and mind has no physical shape. And, see brain is not mind, but power house of mind, but mind has greater role in directing all human activity, including sex. Every one of us possess 'free will', which is greatest gift of nature.

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A male reader, The Corporate Casanova United States +, writes (9 March 2010):

The Corporate Casanova agony auntMust be hitting some more puberty due to hormonal balancing, but that's normal. Trust me; there's nothing wrong with puberty at all; it just takes some time to adapt.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2010):

There's nothing wrong with you. You're not supposed to be like all those porn starts. You're supposed to be yourself. Woman are all different, just like men. And your husband is happy. There's nothing wrong with you.

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