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writes:So, yesterday my boyfriend and I were playing around and things got rough and he ended up on top of me demading me to make out with him. I was saying no and telling him to get off and he just kept me pinned down until my friend came back in the room. I guess my question is should I take this as a sign that he's not as nice as he seems? Reply to this Question
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reader, Artistry +, writes (2 July 2010):
 Hi, I guess my questions would be how long have you been in an exclusive relationship and is this the first time he has acted this way? Any other aggressive behavior? If this is a recent relationship, I would hang a little looser with him, not be together as much, especially if he wants more than you want to give at the moment. Take the time to know the person even someone you think you know can expose another side of themselves that may not be attractive. Some men feel that women or girls want them to press the issue and they say no because they want to be conquered or something. Wrong thoughts take hold and you are left trying to make them understand. Always stand up for yourself, you will be respected. But do not tease guys or make them think you are teasing, if you do they will say you lead them on. Not a good place to be. Take this relationship slow, see what he does next. Then follow your instincts. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): It's hard to say, he may just have been playing around and took it a little too far. Either way you should sit him down and explain to him that what he did concerned you and that he got a little too rough for your likes. Some people are into that kind of stuff though, I for one love it when my guy pushes me up against the wall and pins me in place, or pins me on the bed but I've never felt scared. If you feel scared about his actions tell him that. If he keeps doing it, leave, simple as that.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (2 July 2010):
 was he trying to be fiesty/flirty or was he scaring you?? that should tell you.
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