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writes: i'm 14 , how can you tell if your teacher knows that you like them and what are ways to tell if they like you back ?, oh should you ever tell a teacher that you like them ? , i'm leaving the school in about 4 months going to another school should i tell him i like him when i leave , and plus what are ways to get over a teacher , he seems impossible and i can't seem to think of anything else other than him , my grades are getting low because i can't concentrate ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell hes pretty old ,:( 46 and already has a life , a special someone and kids too many kids , and i love him so much i've never felt this way about anyone before he drives me insane and i wouldn't want to risk his career and everything because hes important to me and i get so depressed because of this even though it may seem insignificant and stupid , but it matters to me deeply ,i wish i could have him but i need to face it , its never going to happen :'(
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Depends on the age of your teacher. How old is he?
It can work, it did for me. I fell in love with him just before my 14th birthday. I didn't tell him until I was 16. There was a connection between us all the way, but he had to - I am glad he did, since it allowed me to grow up - take his time.
If you are moving school, if it is nearby - try and stay in touch in Facebook or other site. If there is to be a connection it is OK, but give us time.
Maybe tell him he is your favourite teacher ever, you love his lessons and you learn so much from him. That would be more sensible at this stage.
When you are a bit older, maybe try and connect with him then.
Feel free to read my story:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-an-author-looking-for-your-stories-about.html
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 You'll only embarass yourself if you do anything. A crush is like a bad cold, you just have to endure it until it goes away on it's own, and it WILL go away just give it time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh almost forgot if i end up telling him what are the right exact words to say to him ? oh maybe i should just give him flirty looks and maybe he can just tell from there that i like him or something..or perhaps not XD
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks for all the help i apreciate it , and yes neighbours1994 i'd like to message you but i can't because it won't allow me to srnd you mail , because it says user dosen't accept income mail or something like that perhaps send me mail instead i'd so much like to tell you my story also :)
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reader, daniellelittle  +, writes (5 July 2010):
in all honesty you are only 14 and your teacher won't see you in any other way than a student. i'm only 15 myself and i definitely been in your situation.
but the fact is that he probably doesn't see you as anything but a student and even if he did he wouldn't be able to show it.
but i know it's hard to get over any kind of feelings, you just gotta try and stay strong and move on.
or you could tell him but if you plan to do that be VERY careful. and secretive xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): Omg, I am also in love with my teacher! For this summer I'm taking his class called Digital Photography/Visual Communications. I knew on the 1st day that I'd fall for him. When I saw him, I hoped he wasn't my teacher. But I know he doesn't like me at all, not in any other way besides a student. Still, I am obsessed with him. Oh by the way I'm 16 and he's soon to be 41. I know it's impossible to ever be with him but for now I'm just enjoying the time around him in class.
Trust me, you will KNOW if he likes you back. He would flirt with you or talk to you more than his other students.
Telling him is fully your own choice. But I've gotten advice to never tell him, especially if school won't be over soon. But since you're leaving, there's really no harm in telling him at all. That's my opinion anyways.
No matter what, you should always put your schoolwork first. Getting over him will start happening once you stop seeing him.
*I hope my advice helped you in some way:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): You will grow up and see that they see you as a kid and not in a sexual way at all. Never tell them
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reader, gooddrawer  +, writes (2 July 2010):
It will be really hard at first but slowly you will get over him in time,it will help you to get over him if you don't see him.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2010):
Check out the Forbidden Love section on this site. We get a gazillion questions from young ladies about their teacher crushes. Saves us from typing the same answers over and over again.
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