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female
age
36-40,
*issy7
writes:I've known this guy for 5 years but only as an aquaintance. For the past year he has been contacting me much more and I would be nice to him but showed no serious interest. Well recently we began talking/flirting more and we hung out at his house a couple times, no dates or anything. We ended up having sex. I didn't think he would keep in touch because I figured that was all he wanted and I actually didn't even care at first. But he actually has. He texts me every other day to see how I'm doing but he just doesn't seem interested in getting to know me MORE. He doesn't ask about my life, my job, my family, nothing it's pretty much just small talks and innocent flirting like before. And if we do talk about something interesting I'm the one to begin the conversation. When I tried to stop the flirting and talk to him just as a friend like before all of this, it seems he flirts and contacts me much more. He TALKS about taking me on dates, but hasn't. He doesn't talk about meeting again either, doesn't talk about sex. I think he is not into me but I don't understand why he still keeps in touch like he does. And now he calls me "babe/baby" ugh. What's going on? I initially wanted to just have fun and leave it alone but now I'm confused I was afraid this confusion would happen ugggh. What do you think is up with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): He is Sort of into you. He likes the fact he's known you for quite sometime, but he loves the fact you two had sex. he must of really enjoyed that, and wants more. but on the other hand, he is confused on what he really feels for you. He doesn't know wether or not he wants just sex, or if he wants an actual relationship. There are many possibilities.Which can also include him wanting you as a "Sex buddy" and only that. Guys are very hard to talk too. So i suggest you don't talk to him about it. His answer won't be as satisfying as you think. Think outside the box. make a move. if he doesn't respond then he doen't want a relationship.Try being more outgoing. ask him what he likes. What he likes about YOU.Cause there is a possibility he feels akward or ucomfortable about having sex with you. Never bring it up. Wel that is all 3 i hope everything goes well.
sincerly,
Sonic, age 13
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