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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am 34 abd my man is 44. We've been together for 3 1/2 years. He has not worked in two years and his mom pays for everything. Am I wasting my time? Can he change? He doesn't listen to anyone and sits around watching documentaries and complaining. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): He might have to if the government tightens up on benefits and getting people out to work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Yes I think you are wasting you time, he is 44 and letting him mum keep him, be careful you don't end up taking over from his mum. Try talking to him, if he doesn't listen then yes maybe it's time to leave him to it.
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (2 July 2010):
Hey Honey,
Yeap your wasting your time.
1) If you had children with him, is this the type of role model you want for them?
2) Can you really respect a 44 year old living off he's mum?
3) Mumma's boy??
Good luck, let us know what you decide?
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