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anonymous
writes:Hey ive wrote on here before but can't remember when i posted my last questions so here basically what happened. Me and this guy had been friends for some time, we never really spoke much then a groupo of 4 of us(me him and a couple) started going out. He was always really weird with me as he wouldnt talk to me like he would them. He was fine with them would ask what they'd been up to etc , just make jokes hqave a laugh mess around. but me no! Sometimes he spoke to me fine, his behaviour used to change constantly day to day, hr to hr of the time we were all out. He wouldnt speak to me very well and if i asked him something or spoke to me he'd just answer and then go back to them. He;d also make sure he was alwyas sitting with them not me. My mate said maybe he likes you as he seems shy but i never knew.From the replies i got from you lot also said he may like me however i always thought why if he likes me can he meet/flirt with other girls fine.Also one night quite a while ago we were alone. he started playfighting with me and i sat on his knee. From that moment on he started cuddling me. Really tightly, he had his head in my hair and shoulders etc. It all seemed very meaningful. He took me outside and ewas very nervous, he never said he was sorry for the past but we got interupted so i never knew what he was going to say. We went back in he pulled me back on him and we just kept cuddling. I thought it was as mates but where he had his hands and how close we were etc. He also said that night how we;re great mates. Other little things have happened since then, he took me home ill one night and he started holding my hand, at first in a comforting way and then just sitting there doing it. He kept hold of me all the way home and when we hugged when i left neither of us let go and he had his hands on my bum. Since then we went out(4 of us) again and he hardly spoke however from something that was said to my mate it made it out that he was getting jealous that i was flirting with the guy, he also said i was flirting with him later that night as he sat in the cold with me for 2 hrs for no reason. Since then things have been confusing the same old talking problem etc. Seems quite negative as if he didnt care yet hes said how much i mean to him before. Everyone said what he did went to far for just mates and no matter how shy he is i need to conront him. I know its not the best way but ive text him how i feel as i wont see him for a while. Thing is he aint text bak n i dont know what to say next! As a friend i woulda thought the least he coulda done was said sorry but i dont like you that way but hope we still friends. What do i do? I know its abit later on in time but it had to be done. I cant leave this its needs sorting even if i just ask why he did everything.
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 try text him or even ring him again.just put it straight forward, make him listen to your side of the story, let him have a chance if he wants to speak what his feelings are, but if he doesnt reply, send him one text saying fine, you've heard my story , ive tried and tried and it seems like your not listening. its breaking my heart , so wehn you do decide to talk to me i will be here waiting, and yess i do like no1 else... or something like that
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