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anonymous
writes: I have lived and died so many times for being so devoted to this woman who I doubt I should hang on to any longer. It's not that she hurts me... Her unattainability does. I somehow remain convinced that she still loves me, as she did at one time. But I don't know about now. I think it's one of those things that can be kindled and rekindled and rekindled.I don't really know what to do about how attached I am. I'm writing through it, talking about it with others, but I don't let go until I've heard from her. I'm sure it'll end up being one of those situations where I hold on for years and years for someone who can't make up her mind. But, I don't want anyone else... I really don't. I guess I'm not open to a different kind of love, a different kind of person, because I've become so attached to her kind of love, her kind of person. I suppose I continue to grow out of this attachment, but it's taken so, so long. It's the love I never felt from my mother, I think, that I feel with this woman. I suppose the only way out is meeting new people, which I know I must, but which I am not ready or willing to do just this moment. Anyone else in this kind of boat? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): You've answer you own question. why bother waiting for someone you can not share a relationship with. You always able to meet new people out there and i don't understand why your not ready? Is there some other issues holding you back besides her?
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