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female
age
36-40,
*inkhearts
writes:Hello everyone. I never go online for advice but in this case I need a unbias advice.So I was seeing this most wonderful guy and we got along perfectly, We made me laugh with our intellectual jokes and other inside jokes. We also shared so much with eahcother with our hobbies and personal stuff. We simple got each other and life was great. So a couple incidents that were not in my control like my crazy roomies looked me out and then moving to a new home where people had some mental health issues. Anyways drama that occur very early in our relationship. So the first two weeks were great and lovely, He got along well with my best friend and I though wow, he is great. So the long story is we took a break about a week and then he broke up with me. I think he was right to do so as there was drama and silly situations that occured , and i get that. Also he is moving away for school in the fall about an hour away and it would be hard. So anyways the point being said we broke up and it was hard., That was a month ago, We have been in contact with each other and seeing each other as friends for the last two weeks, Last weekend he looked after my puppy as I was out of town and has been super sweet since then, Previously he asked to hang out with me and it was great. Just like old times when we were together and it was great. In fact we hung out yesterday watched movies and he slept most of the time here. But we kinda cuddle with me on the couch but nothing more. But he spent 14 hours with me and bought me dinner. Despite everything its like normal us, funny and witty. Not to mention he great with my dog and has adopted him as his son. Me being mom and him being dad.. So here is the kicker, he bought festival tickets to the huge event out of promise as a surprise. He and I share the same taste in music and really was excited that we are going together. We are going with his best friend and his girlfriend. So I still have feelings for him and I just dont know what to think. As he always teases, lightly touches me, and had asked me if im seeing anyone all the times. Then i respond that its not my interest but for him it is. But he texted me once if i still had a crush on him and i said no. But I said no of course just to play it cool. But we talk everyday now and before we did pre break up. But he is a super great person but im confused. So if anyone can help me out what they think is going on that would be lovely. Thanks
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (2 July 2010):
Go away to this music gig together and see what happens.
If the weekend rekindles your romance, then great! If not, it may be time to start dating new guys.
Good luck x
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