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writes:Will my ex continue to mess around with his ex now that i have discovered his games and he has lost our relationship and his kids? I recently started to become very uncomfortable with my partners contact with his ex. They have a grownup son and he would often use this as his excuse even though he is a man not a boy. They would meet up sometimes, he would of rand her when at work, sent private messages to her on facebook and even text at night. He had claimed it was innocent, but i had an uncomfortable feeling. Our relationship was not the best as we rarely spent time together or had a sex life.Life became very boring and became more about just the children. I recently pulled the plug on it all even though he had said he wanted to stay but would not explain the interest in his ex. We are currently not together but he does have contact with the kids. Now things have blown up do you think his interest in her will continue as she doesnt live local an hour away and surely if she has a grownup son why would she want her ex back now he has 2 young kids, what are the two of them playing at?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): who has he known the longest? you or her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): It looks like you ended it with him without any real proof. You could say you have pushed him towards her. You should take half the blame if he gets back with her. If he does then its his life, not yours. You cannot and seem to fail at making decisions for other people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust to reply to these answers, he was actually my partner when this started going on which is why i pulled the plug, i think the fact that he had 2 kids with me makes it my right to know what they were both playing at because they have know destroyed a family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): What are the two of them playing at? He is not with you now,so he isnt playing at anything. What do you do? Where do you go? Is it his business?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): He is your ex,not your partner and you have no hold. If its not her who`s keepin him sweet,then there will eventualy be someone else. Again i will tell you....He is your ex.
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (2 July 2010):
Hey Honey,
My ex was also obessed with he's ex (also had a child with her). He used to hack into her email account, send dodgy texts, call her at 1am when their child was alseep.
Even now we are not together, she has. Been quoted to say "she will always be there for him, but he seems to not want her".
He loves keeping her on a string having someone adore him unconditionally. Well good luck to them. None of my business now.
Somethings only time will tell, don't get upset get one up by having a happy brilliant future!! That's what I'm doing :o)
Good luck x
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reader, It's all be okay +, writes (2 July 2010):
It's none of your business, is it?
Your relationship is over, and whether he gets a new girlfriend or has casual relationships or goes back to her is nothing to do with you.
Move on and just stay civil for the benefit of your kids.
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reader, sweetsiepie +, writes (2 July 2010):
 hey hunny there will always be something between them because of then son but if you dont trust him now you never will a relationship is based on trust and if that aint there the relationship wont work so hunny do what your heart is telling you to do x
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