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writes:okay so my boyfriend and i decided he will be fingering me in the next few days, i'm really excited but i feel things won't go as planned... i seem to cum at anytime in the day and it worries me. Is that normal?? like why do i do that? and when he is fingering me i don't want to make a huge mess because when i do it's not just a little bit...its a lot! and i dont know i just want to know if this is normal and what is going on with me..!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Relax it's no big deal, guys like it when you cum and they don't really get bothered by how much there is, unless you make a big deal out of it. There isn't much you can do to restrict how much you cum and it would be awful to ruin this experience by being so worried about it. Just go with it and enjoy the whole thing. All the other advice is on point, it may be a bacterial infection or something but it also could just be that you are getting turned on during the day for no apparent reason and your body is reacting to that and lubricating itself thinking that it's getting prepared for sex. I am sure your boyfriend won't be concerned about you making a huge mess but if it is something that you are going to be worried about maybe try placing a towel underneath you first. But honestly there is nothing wrong with your body producing a lot of liquid, if anything it's good, hopefully it will help when you go to have sex at least you hopefully won't be dry because that does hurt!
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (2 July 2010):
Hi Honey,
Are you sure it is cum? It could be thrush?
Seek medical advice if it may not be cum.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 A lot of girls do cum with quite a bit of fluid so that is completely normal. Just wondering though is it actually an orgasm you are experiencing at any time of the day or could it just be discharge. Sometimes at certain times of the month (usually two weeks between your period) your discharge is quite heavy and frequent.
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