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Is it a loser thing to go on vacation with your parents at 30?

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Question - (2 July 2010) 11 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2010)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hey aunts! I'll be 30 in a few months. I have bf, a house of my own and a great job. My parents asked me to go on a 10 day trip together- on them! I said hell yeah! After all, it's a free vacation, right! And I love them. Then I thought... is it a loser thing to go on vacation with your parents at 30?!? Just wondering... Thank you!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010):

I think it's great for you to spend time with your parents. It's totally not a loser thing, I think it's perfectly normal.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010):

It is in absolutely no way a loser thing to do. I wish I had the chance to go on holiday with my 'rents but these days we are always short of time to do this sort of thing. If I have the opportunity in the future- and I'm already 29- I will jump at it. Have a great time.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (2 July 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntWe expect a postcard. :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you, aunts!! I'm glad I'm not a loser, after all!! ;-) Thank you!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010):

Hell yeah! I'm 20 and I would take up the free chance at any age!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010):

lol a loser thing? Hell no! I think it'll be a loser think if you think you're to good or to big to go with them. Go and have fun, they are your family after all.

NightFairy

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (2 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI am 41 and I would go on vacation with my parents ANY day! :) Then hubby could have fun with the kids, house and pet!

You betcha!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010):

I think it's grand ;) No, really, spend time with your parents. I can tell you tho...my MIL treated my wife and I to trips almost every summer. It put a lot of stress on our marriage, being babycoddled with free cruises and the like. I felt spoon-fed. I eventually declined when we would get invited.

Maybe they will let you bring the BF? That would make it much more fun;)

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A female reader, jvjvjvjv United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2010):

A loser thing? Not at all! It's a perfectly lovely thing if you and your parents can enjoy each others' company at any age. Cherish it.

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A female reader, LLindy87 United States +, writes (2 July 2010):

LLindy87 agony auntheck no, don't be embarrassed about that, it sounds fun and a great chance to spend time with them!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (2 July 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntWhen your parents are dead and gone, you will be so happy that you chose to spend good quality time with them, making happy memories and just enjoying their company. Go have fun, and don't think twice about that!

My parents would rent a beach house every year, just to lure their grown children to spend time with them. Dad doesn't really like the beach, but he knows we do. And I love him and appreciate him for that.

Spend time with them now, so you will have no regrets when they are gone.

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