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writes:I'm 15 now but still no girls notice me and talk to me....I feel ashamed of myself for being a only boy in my class that has no Girlfriend...My friends even help me find a girl and we even did a blind date but there was no success I feel like i'm the only guy that will have no girlfriend in the future...My friends and family always say's that (your not ugly your's just saying negative things to yourself)I fell lonely right know that's why when my friends see me they say that I'm a EMO person because I'm the only person that don't have girl and it irritates me... i'm 15 for now and i hope things will get easier for starting this day
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Okay first of all, don't ever feel ashamed of yourself for something like not having a girlfriend. You are unique and special and somebody will see that, I promise. It sounds cliche, but it really does happen when you least expect it and when you stop looking for it. For now, concentrate on what interests you and the rest will come. Try new things, sports or classes you wouldn't normally take, and you'd be surprised what different people you will meet. I realize it's harder when you feel like your friends give you no support, but if your comfortable with yourself and you are happy, they will see that and back off. You are the only person that can make you happy and when you truly are, you will attract the right kind of girl!! Good Luck
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reader, jvjvjvjv  +, writes (2 July 2010):
First don't let your friends get to you, they sound quite childish. Secondly, don't worry about not having a girlfriend right now because (a) having a girlfriend is not everything and (b) chances are it will happen when you least expect it. However I recognise it is something you want desperately so my pointers would be to try and build your confidence to approach girls and be their friend. Your confidence will grow if you have lots of different interests and hobbies. Get involved in stuff. Not only will you meet new people, but you'll become a more interesting person and an interesting person is one that girls want to get to know.
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reader, sweetsiepie +, writes (2 July 2010):
 hey hunny your young, you dont need a gf, you should be out having a laugh at your age not wanting a moaning girl lol. trust me and dont feel lonely just build your confidence up look in the mirror and say: i am a good looking guy i wont be single for life and ur confidence will pick back up and just enjoy been single. sometimes when guys brag they have a gf they actually aint, so dont believe all the guys in your glass x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): You're 15. There are far worse things in this world than not having a bullshit excuse for a relationship at 15.Anything you have with any girl will begin and end within a few months, a year at the most, at 15.Flynn 24
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