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male
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36-40,
*outhernman321
writes:I met a girl in a chatroom 2 months ago. After 3 weeks she told me she loved me and I said it back. Everything was great until about 4 weeks ago. I was about to go drive down and actually see her in person, and she backed out. Then she really stopped texting and talking to me a lot. And finally about a week ago she said she wants a break and needed time to re-evaluate. She told me she would still check in with me and she hasnt. It was to the point to where she never even called or asked how I was or anything. The only way for me to talk to her was if I texted first and she still took forever to reply and rarely answered my phone. Her excuse is she is too busy. But she goes out every weekend with her friends and when I ask her to call me she never does. I texted her yesterday and asked if we could talk, didnt get a reply back. Today I asked the same thing, and I havent gotten a reply back. This is really killing me and it doesnt really seem to bother her at all. I let her know all the time that I am worried about her losing interest and she never says anything to help me feel better. And she never tells me what she is doing, just that she is busy and cant talk to me?? If you love somebody, would u suddenly lose interest and not want to talk to them and repeated just ignore texts? Any suggestions, preferally from females, would be useful
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reader, sweetsiepie  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 hey hunny sorry how things have happened for you but i'd say when she said she loved you she didnt meant it in the way that you meant i think she meant it more as friends and been as shes stopped texting and talking to you i'd say she might have met someone else so hunny dont text her anymore get on with your life find another lucky lady have fun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): It honestly sounds to me that you may have come on to strong with her. Was it your idea to meet in person or hers? Not everyone you meet on the Internet is in fact who they say they are. There's lots of different possiblies. I think after only meeting on the Internet you are to attached and this could have scared her. You said you wanted to know what she was doing ext. That's controlling of someone you nearly just meet. I belive that her responce of telling you she is busy all the time is in her best effort to tell you indirectly and without hurting your feelings that she's not intrested anymore. I would leave her alone completely and allow her the space she deserves. Please keep in mind that you can not make others feel or do what you want and shouldn't try. Remember when dating you are taking a chance and need to realize that takes muturaty and sometimes that means walking away even if your not getting a direct answer.
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