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writes:Dear cupid,I have this boyfriend we have been going out for about a 20 days we are both 14..i love him so so much but we havent told each other that we loved each other...i am to worried if i say it first in case he doesnt say it back to me? why wont he say it? and does he feel the same? please help
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 July 2010):
 I find it hard to believe you love him after 20 days. Are you sure you are not just crazy about him and in love? As in infatuated? What do you mean by love?
I think it is important that you first of all define what love means to YOU. What do you think love means? And then you can ask your boyfriend what he thinks love means. If they are the same, maybe you should tell him. If they are not the same, you could talk to him about what you think love means and tell him that this is how you feel for him.
When it comes to true love... you won't need him to tell you he loves you back, because you should already know in your heart that he does. And so it will not be needed to hear it back.
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reader, Wise Woman of the Forest +, writes (3 July 2010):
 You're only 14 and infatuation is overwhelming, but twenty days is not even three weeks. Besides which, most 14 years olds say it just generally without meaning it. It's a normal reaction "i love you" "I LOVE YOU TOOOOOOOOOOOO" :L
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 Please, listen to what celtic tiger has told you!
I remember what 14 was like too - even though it's long, long ago (ha ha!) and having a mad crush on a boy.......just relax in any case, 20 days is NOTHING.....
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (2 July 2010):
 You have only been dating for 20 days. This is a very short period of time to be saying "I love you".
I know you feel like you love him, but trust me, we have all been 14 and we have thought we were in love. When you look back in a few years time, you will realise that love takes more than 20 days to come to develop. Wait until you have been dating 6 months, then if you are still together you can think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Okay how are we suppose to know how he feels? also you two have only been dating for 20 days, not even a month. Stop rushing things, don't be the girl who falls quickly and gets her heart broken.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): You are 14. You dont even know what love is. Dont worry about saying it to a person you have been seeing for just shy of 3 weeks. Im positive that even if he does say it back, he wont mean it because he wont know what love is either.
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