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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I am married for 21 years and have two sons aged 21 and 17.I was proposed by my husband 8 years older to me at the age of 16. It is like I grew up with his thoughts as a partner.I cldnt think out of him when considered about marrige, not because I loved him as I didnt understand whats love at that time, but because I was in awe of him as he used to visit our house frequently.I was married with him after his parents persuaqded my parents. I had lots of hopes from him as he wanted me in his life, But nothing was as serious for him.Life was not planned nor he ever thought of making life comfortable.I didnt want kids early but he wanted, so we had kids within a year of our marriage without me understanding sex. I had my first orgasm after I had my son.He lost his job after we had two sons and my struggle for making the ends meet started.slowly the burden was transfered to me and today I am taking care of the needs of the family with meagre support from him.I have lot of negative feelings towards him, but really pity him so never gave a thought for divorce. But I am not able to indulge in sex with him.I want someone superior to be with me in bed.I am into social networks and have freinds. though I am not indulged physically with anyone i do have some sex talk over there.I look lot younger to my age and the are guys who want me around my office also.Though I have an urge to get into bed with one of them, I keep stopping myself as I am from an orthodox family.This is really disturbing me.Is it really wrong if I indulge in sex with anyone who crave for me.I need it to keep myself get going in life . Pls help me with a good advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): Rescuer,I accept. Divorce is a better way. But divorce will break my parents. They are old and heart patients. I keep myself happy to keep others happy.No one can ever make out that I am unhappy.Moreover if I divorce who will take care of my husband. There is no one. He is not capable to take care of his family.If no money, who will accept him.I cant be cruel.May be I have to live suppressed for life now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Cheating is NEVER the right path to take.
If things are that bad that a simple talk can't fix it, then the best option is to seperate or divorce.
Flynn 24
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