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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So this past weekend was my one year with my boyfriend and we went and celebrated. Of course I bought this super sexy outfit for him because that night was going to be an extra special night. He had bought a vibrating cock ring and some lubricant to make the night more fun and romantic. He did everything in his power to get me to orgasm, but I didn't. Everyone keeps telling me that I'll know when I'll have an orgasm so I honestly don't think I've had one. It's to the point where both, the boyfriend and I, are getting frustrated. We try everything to get me to orgasm and nothing seems to work. We love each other to death and I don't mind the fact that I've never orgasmed before, but he just wants to be able to pleasure me to the fullest. I've also been told to try out a vibrator, which is on my to-do list, I just need to get one first. Is there anything else that he can do? Or that I can do in order to reach orgasm?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (2 July 2010):
 Try focusing on your breathing. Believe it or not, doing things like moaning can actually cause the stimulation you're feeling to intensify. I was amazed the first time I tried this.
Also, one thing that is probably another hinderance is the fact that you're both overly concerned about it. All that focus can be intimidating and make it difficult to really enjoy the pleasure you're receiving.
Also, masterbation will usually help you at least get used to what an orgasm feels like. See if you can successfully bring yourself there. That will help you guide your BF to do things that will help get you off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Okay this may sound a little strange but trust me IT WORKS!
If you have a bath, lie in it with the tap over your vagina and adjust the water depending on what feels good, I usually like warm water and not on too high. Make sure the water is hitting your clitoris.
It feels amazing!
Good luck!
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