Crap...Our first fight... How do I handle this?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't really like having my heart on my sleeve because I don't want to be vulnerable...my guy doesn't mind expressing himself at all...we had our first fight this morning and this shocked me because we usually get along so well. Relatives came over and spontaneously asked me to stay over their house for a few days. I agreed. My guy was asleep in his own house and I didnt want to bother him and tell him. This morning, he asks me where I am and I tell him I'm in another city. He gets sarcastic and cold, tells me that I never tell him anything and that he guessed he couldnt change people. Then he told me to have fun and asked to call me later. I said, if you want, sounds like you're mad at me. He said, talk to you later, have fun and then hung up on me. Hes been mad before when I hung out with friends instead of him but never like this. He told me he thinks I'm cheating...I'm not. I just get scared sometimes that I'll fall for him when he doesnt seem to want love and get hurt. Am i wrong? Should I say sorry?

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