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30-35,
*ikari_mibu
writes:I've never had a boyfriend before, so the problem is that I have no game and no idea of how to meet people and ask them out. I wouldn't even know where to begin! Like...do I just go up to some random man in a bar and ask him out? Or do I only ask people that I know? As you can tell: lost! Completely! So can anyone help a dating virgin get over this first hurdle?P.S I've just turned 18, some options may be limited to my age.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 July 2010):
 Anything goes and there is no best way, except when it is all unexpected. Whether you go to school or work part time, you will come in contact with men. Don't ask them out right away. Talk to them, eat lunch together, look for commonalities, interests, chemistry, see if they are single, are they living there for a long time, how much free time they have, etc. Let the guy ask you out, it's his job. Remember you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you get a prince. As my rule, only date one guy at a time.
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reader, justadvise  +, writes (3 July 2010):
Hey Hikari,
You don't need game, just be yourself and you should be good. Depends on what kind of guy you're interested in there are guys everywhere. I'm right here...lol. It is true that you aren't of age but there are clubs out there that are 18 and above. You should be going to college pretty soon and there are tons of opportunity to meet guys there. Sometimes when you aren't looking it comes to you, but if you insist, look in bars, friends bbq/party, church, gym, park, beach, library, concerts, festival, or if you're shy about all of these places...you can always try online and get to know the person first...The most important thing is be yourself and everything should be in place. Good luck
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