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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been in a relationship for 6 years, we were engaged for 3 years. Couple months ago I found out my bf is seeing someone from his past. His childhood friend. When I asked him about it he told me he didn't say anything cause I can't handle the truth. Meaning Im very jealous. After that we didn't talk for over a month. And then he told me he's breaking up with me. I was devasted, after all we've been together for so long. I was planning my future with him. For couple months he wouldn't talk to me, except emails. I was telling him how much I love him and how much I want him back. So couple months later he decided to meet with me. Since then I met him couple times. I keep telling him that I want him back but he keeps saying not yet. I asked him if he wants me to move on and he said no. I believe he wants to fool around with different woman, and then if he finds somebody better he will stop talking to me. I found out that he likes to chat to other woman online. He doesn't want to be with me but then he doesn't want me to go. Should I stop talking to him? I still tell him I love him and maybe thats stupid but i was thinking that this may help to get him back.He disappointed me so many times but still i want him back. I still love him. Maybe its a fear of being alone. What should I do now??? Stop telling him I love him, leave him alone for couple days, weeks. Im scared he will find somebody in meantime... PLEASE let me know what you think about this...I appreciate any advice.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 hi i just noticed that you posted this back in july and you never got any replies. I guess there is not much information i can tell you now at this late stage, if you would like to give an update i will be happy to help with any queries.
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