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writes:Hello. I'm confused and would like some help.I've recently grown close to a guy who was in school with me. I really fancy him and there's a lot of signs that he may feel the same way about me.The trouble is we rarely talk to each other in person. We've become closer through texting and talking online. We're both incredibly shy and don't know how to behave around each other. It's so stupid because I would count him one of the people I'm closest to. We do speak on occasions but we don't see each other very often to do so. He's made it clear that he wants to meet up with me. We both want to break the ice.There's a party this weekend and we'll both be there. I'm very nervous about it. I'm scared I'll push him away because I won't know how to react. But the thought of having to approach him also terrifies me. What should I do? I like him so much...
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reader, girl watcher  +, writes (2 July 2010):
I have a thought....When you go to the party this weekend, wear something provacative. Not slutty but maybe a sheer kinda shirt with no bra to show off your body a little. See if you see him looking at you alot and if you do, well tell him you did it just for him....Just a thought..let me know if it works out
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reader, TimmD +, writes (2 July 2010):
 Try finding something you have in common and using it. In both of your cases, it's your shyness. You're both shy, you're both nervous, and you're both awkward towards each other... yet you both want it to work.
Keep that in mind, and use it. If you get along THAT good through text, etc, then start off with something like "Can we just sit next to each other and text to make things less awkward..." obviously in a joking, sarcastic way.
Anything you can do to relieve some of the tension and just remember this is the same guy you chat with all of the time.
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reader, sweetsiepie +, writes (2 July 2010):
 hey hunny dont be scared just be like you talk when its by text or by the computer just be yourself and act natural most guys like shy girls and you really do need to brake the ice if you both wanna get it on so go to this party with ur head held high and just talk to him have a laugh and let it go from there x
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