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writes:I’m sorry I went into a rant.. I hope its not too long. Ive been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and I feel like our relationship is going down the drain. I feel like he doesn’t really care about me, no matter how many times he says he loves me or hugs me or kisses me. But I am a very romantic person, I love writing sweet nothings on post-it notes and giving them to him, looking for new songs to dedicate to him, making plans for romantic times we can spend together and what to do when were together. I get frustrated and even upset with him because he is not like that to me. In the 4 years we’ve been together he has only given roses to me twice (after 3 yrs), and not before I confronted him and told him that he never had done it. He has never written me a letter or a note or anything like that. If I get upset it does not bother him, he just ignores me until I come back and say sorry for “being messed up”. Everything that we do has to be something he wants to do, if I want to do something, he’s always too tired to do it. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I want to know what it is that I need to do to get him to ACT like a boyfriend. Please, is it me or is it him? Reply to this Question
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reader, babylove13 +, writes (2 July 2010):
wow this kind of sounds like my relationship but we have only been together for a year sweetie is he worth it? if not i kno it's easier said then done but try to tell him you give up he'll be astonished because it seems like you never would don't go to him again! let him come to you. i learned that after my boyfriend was always the one making up with me then he said i give up i neaRLY went crazy so i did everything i could to keep him and now it's ok but we have some trust issues, it's him do exactly as i said and get back to me and tell me how it works out..
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