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writes:Yeah yeah, "Its wrong". Dont bother, but I think I love 3 of my cousins and want to get with them. 2 of them are sisters and arent related to me by blood but the other is. I know family relationships are wrong, but I dont think I can help myself. I dont drink around them if they are cause Im afraid something will happen. I dont know if any feel the same way, but it would make things easier if they didnt. We are all fairly close in age. I have seen the one who is related by blood naked before, on accident of course, but have most in common with the youngest of the 2 sisters. I sometimes get embarresed when I see them because I get hard, even though they dont notice. I really wouldnt want anything to happen cause I know its wrong, and that is what matters I suppose, but its kind of hard to tell a guy with raging hormones that its wrong to get with beautiful women. Do any of you have suggestions on how I can get over this? Im just confused about how to handle the situation. I really dont want to ruin the relationship that we all have cause we see each other often and it would be bad if anything went wrong.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 "but its kind of hard to tell a guy with raging hormones that its wrong to get with beautiful women"
Read that statement back to yourself - you are totally right in what you are saying but think about this properly - are your cousins the only beautiful women in the world?
Of course the answer is no. So I am going to tell you it is wrong to get with family members, so why not go out with your friends and find yourself a non-related beautiful woman to get with?
I think you are just a hormonal young man and because you spend a lot of time with your cousins they are the easy option for you. So instead, try spending less time with family and more time with your friends, and meet women that way! I'm sure once you have found yourself another beautiful woman to focus your attention on you will soon forget about these feelings you have for your cousins.
You dont love them - you just lust after them. And you can lust after many more women! Plus you cannot be in love with 3 women at the same time so this clearly is just hormones rather than any real feelings for them. So my suggestions for you to get over them is quite simple: Spend less time with them and find a girlfriend, or at least a girl who you can focus your attentions on!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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