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writes:So i have been hanging out with this guy for a while, and he is in the army and leaving for deployment in August. We had a strong connection from the start. It seems like he sees me for who i am and cares about me a lot. while he was at his training he seemed to be trying to push me away, but i told him that i wanted him. he was telling me he doesnt want me to have to wait for him to come home and that he was left once before and what not by his ex. we seemed to get past that and everything was going smoothly, we text everyday when he had down time and now its gotten to nothing at all for 2 days. im not sure what is going on. i have been played before and he told me that he could never do that to me because im his perfect girl, he even displayed his feelings for me in front of all of our friends... now it to the point where he hasn't text me at all for 2 days. What does this all mean? i really need some advice and opinions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): If he normaly plays girls then telling you tht you are the perfect one will just be part of his act to get you trust him
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reader, Alice8  +, writes (2 July 2010):
He may have somthing on his mind which makes too busy or just not in the mood to talk to you, most of the time its something not even the slightest related to you. Ask him whats up? and if he tells you then thats a step forward, if he wont say just let him know that your there for him no matter what's going on in his head. Hear him out and then make your next step.
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