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writes:hey you guys i have a question that i want to ask im 14 soon to be 15 in june and my boyfriend is younger than i am i want to tell himm that im older than him but im way to scared that he might reject me becuse of that. please tell me how should i tell him the truth. so if i do will it do any harm. his birthday is in april he will be officaly 14 and im about 9 months older than him dose that do any harm please tell me im very desperate. Reply to this Question
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (1 February 2010):
 Desperate? You are 14 years old, there are many other things you should be worried about at this time.
That said, you should tell him the truth. It will come out eventually. I think he will be upset about being deceived, rather than about you being a little older.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (1 February 2010):
I doubt he would care that you're older, he may even like that, and you're way too young to already be lying about your age and saying you're younger than you already are. However, don't be surprised if he happens to not be too happy in general that you would lie about something like that.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 February 2010):
You need to tell him the truth. But seriously, 9 months isn't bad at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): Why should 9 months matter? It doesn't. A difference of a year doesn't matter at all. Not even at that age. If you were 3 years older than him that's a problem. As I see it 12-15 is fine, 13-17, 15-18 (without sex), 17-21, 18-30, 20-40. Those groupings are in general accepted, although if you are at the edge of one or the other group you can find people who think the age gap is a bit too large.
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