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writes:I was really hung up on a good friend of mine. I told her I liked her and she said she liked me too but no thanks. Later I got really drunk and sent her an email about how much I liked parts of her body and how seeing her for a couple of minutes the previous day had made me really want to have sex with her. This was very stupid and very embarrassing.She told her friends I was sending her creepy emails. I apologized and backed WAY off, not contacting her at all. This was all months ago. This month she emailed me. I've been pretty distant and uninterested in my emails. I made light of my crush and the way I behaved. She's started casually talking about things like her "hot ass" and how firm she is from working out but not in a funny way. She never talked about these things before. What's the deal?
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (1 February 2010):
 Maybe she has moved past the incident as well, and is just proud of her hard work paying off? I wouldn't take it as a come on.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 February 2010):
Basically she misses the attention you once gave her. Better give her a miss. She's not all that great
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reader, veronika  +, writes (31 January 2010):
 People love to be desired, even if they don't desire the person who desires them. Some people just like the attention. You probably gave her a confidence boost when you sent her the email about liking different parts of her body, and to save face she told her friends it was "creepy" when she could have secretly liked it.
This is all just speculation, but if she's had a change of behavior she either wants to string you along for a confidence boost (because she knows you like her, or at least used to), OR she's changed her mind and wants you now.
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