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*amrcam2
writes:this question is for the woman reading. I dont know whats wrong with me im a nice guy, very patient, understanding, and good listener. but all the girls i hang out with awile then become good friends with them, i ask some of them out, but i always get the same repley i dont really want to be dating right now but i hope we stay friends. over the past 3 years i have asked out over 24 girls and got shot down every single time. im asking because i only ask out the girls im good friends with and think that they like me in that way too. also when i talk to woman im not like most guys i dont act like a idiot i act like my self and most of my female friends say thats the best part of me. im asking for any womans advice please im despreat but im not acting like it around people, if any of you have advice for me please tell me i dont wanna have my 25 strike out. thanks camrcam Reply to this Question
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (31 January 2010):
 Girls can smell a pussy a mile away, baddogbj gave you the most useful advice on here, I have to say, follow what he told you and you'll be gettin some trim before you even know what hit you!
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reader, camrcam2 +, writes (31 January 2010):
camrcam2 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks to all of you for your help i hope your advise works. ps. i not a push over for girls at all as said in one of your comments. but still thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): sometimes girls don't want to take a chance on losing a friendship. If it doesn't work out they might be afraid of losing you as a friend. If there is a girl that you are friends with then you have to let them know that you want to be more than just friends and that if doesn't work out then maybe your friendship wasn't very strong to be with if it doesn't work out but if it doesn't work out and you can remain friends then you do have a strong friendship. Be very careful dating friends though. It can cause your female friends and yourself some future problems with future boy friends and girl friends. I suggest that when you meet a girl that you are interested in don't let her think you just want to be her friend. Tell her what you really think of her from the start. She might be less likely to turn you down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): stop becoming a good friend first. a lot of girls, when they met a guy, try to decide if the boy likes them or not. when we think they just want to be friends. then youre just a friend. and usually that doesnt change. so ask them out before you become best buddies
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): Stop trying to go from being their friend to being a BF. That works on some girls but not on most. Especially not on most younger ones. You need to start trying to be a romantic interest from the beginning if you ever wanna get into their pants. Look up "ladder theory" on the internet. That explains it pretty well.
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reader, sick  +, writes (31 January 2010):
maybe it's time you take interest in what is in your own backyard. you'd probably be more comfortable there and someone in that circle might actually like you. if they don't, i'm sure they'll tell you the real reason why.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (31 January 2010):
 Stop keeping count. Ask them out right away before you are friends. Don't become "one of the girls".Don't be so nice - please don't go out and be offensive to women but don't put girls up on a pedestal, they don't like it up there. No one is perfect, find their flaws and gently or jokingly draw their attention to their flaws. Disappear unexpectedly for a few days at a time and don't take calls. Give only vague explanations about what you have been up to. Let them understand that you have other things going on in your life which are at least if not more important than them [Obviously don't do this once you are in a steady relationship!].Don't be a pushover and agree with their opinions or run errands for them.
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