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writes:I am soo stressed about this. I'm very young but I love my bf. I don't know if I should wait or go for it but I have a feeling that this time is right to have sex but when it comes to this I get very stressed out I tremble and I can't breathe. I don't know whats wrong with me, maybe its just that I'm not ready or maybe the fact that Ill feel embaresed when I start bleeding :S eww.. I don't know :( Please give me some advise!!!By the way im 15
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reader, Gridrebel  +, writes (1 February 2010):
 There are many things that can't be undone in life. Some of them very important and verrry memorable. This is one of them. Also if your boyfriend is 16 years of age or over he can be prosecuted in many states for statutory rape. You will be an adult soon enough so what is the rush in losing your virginity? Why not wait until you are older and make sure it is a very memorable experience. Because, it is something you will never forget so make it a good memory. Odds are that this is not the guy you will marry and have a family with. Even if he is, why not save that special moment for a time when the two of you are older. This is not a stress someone of your age needs to experience.
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (1 February 2010):
 I say wait! You definitely aren't comfortable with it, and your focus should be on many other things at this age.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 February 2010):
The time isn't right for you at all. Firstly you're too young (by one year), and secondly the fact that you're this worried proves you're really not ready for it. Wait, give it more time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010): You get embarrassed when you start bleeding? You mean you think you will get embarrassed, or do you always bleed when having sex?
Have a good a deep talk with your boyfriend about sex, about expectations and worries. It will clear out many things. Also, try to go at it slow? Start with maybe just seeing his penis, play with it, practice putting on a condom. Then he can look at you and touch you, and do those things, before you get to the penetration part? It could help you overcome your nervousness.
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