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Told my gf I watch porn, and she doesn't understand. What can I say to her?

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Question - (31 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, *oushite writes:

i have been watching porn. i have been with my gf for 4 years so i told her that i watched porn. she got mad and was telling me that i shouldn't be watching those things cause it is all fake so i told her that even if it is fake the sex seems real. she got mad and thought i was trying to say that she wasn't enough for me. everybody knows that porn is for excitement on the net but it's something i don't use for excitement. i told my gf that it gives me ideas on how to make our sex life more pleasurable so she can enjoy it as much as i do. she doesn't believe me and she is mad so she hasn't talked to me for a week. she didn't answer my calls or reply my messages. a couple days later she calls me and we talk again but she still seems upset about the situation. we haven't had sex yet but we done things such as her giving me a hand job or me fingering her so she most likely won't believe me. is their any way to tell her that i really am using it for ideas to help the both of us?

Another thing is that she gets upset because when she gives me a hand job i cum too fast and that i can't pleasure her well. she tells me to see if i can find her g-spot but i don;t know where it is. She has not masturbated ever in her life so she doesn't know where it is either.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (2 February 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntyou both are leading Teen Age. This is right time to learn first, and live your learning. I am publishing series of articles on 'An introduction of Tantra'. This will help you to learn erotic pleasure.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (31 January 2010):

13 to 15 years old? something's not right here...

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A male reader, camrcam2 United States +, writes (31 January 2010):

camrcam2 agony auntwow, thats a bunch of nonsence since just about everyone including woman watch porn although they dont admit it. my advice for telling her that you wanted ides for her is that you should say that your inxperience(if you are just lie)saying things like your just trying to find out about sex so you dont embarass you self should give her a answer she probably wont mind hearing. also for your cumming to early theres a easy solution for that. you just have to masturbate more so you dont get so excited so fast. even though ur gf might not like this solution this is probably the only one since your to young for those kind of drugs and that your even more easily excitable now because of puberty.

hope this helps good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010):

That you are having these issues means you are way too young to be in any for of sexual relationship.

Wait until you are at least 16.

No one will advise an underage kid the best way to sex up a girl.

Besides why are you even asking? You can get this information a thousand different ways, all it takes is a single google search. If you are too young to bother such a rudimentary form of research then you aren't ready.

Flynn 24

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