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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi everyone help needed please,i like this guy and we got on really wel, anyway we stopped talking for a reason i cant really explian 2 u it wasnt bad but he didnt belive that it was not me,Anyway everynow and then i text him sometimes he relpys sometimes he doesnt like a few weeks ago he txt saying na its ok im not into that sort of thing then txt bk saying sorry wrong person and asked who i was HE KNEW WHO I WAS and we carry on talking that niteAnyway he siad he didnt want to talk again so that was it Then last sunday i txt asking if i was ok then he replyed who dis- so i left it thinking maybe he didnt actually no who it was anymoreThen monday nite just gone i got a txt from him saying where are you? i replyed at home and heard nothing bk from him so i texted him saying text not for me then and he replyed yeah it was,Anyway next day txt him again asking what the txt was all about he said he was DRUNK how rude lolAnyway i thought ud txt him on thursday 2 c if he wanted to go for a drink and he replyed bk saying na in be knackered since then have heard nothing from him I do really like this guy,and do want him as a bf but trying to get him bk will b hard lolAnyway my ? is do anyoff you think he does actually no who i am and just messing with me And could he still be intresed in me with the texts everynow and then thinking that im actually not thinking about him and thats what he wants to do play stupid little games with me?I do like him but if i did txt him that dont want the reply i dont like u, or who dis againHes 34 and im 24 so age gap but said hes been with girls younger then me Any advice ???
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reader, Mystery Girl +, writes (6 February 2010):
move on girl. it's obvious he doesn't like you. stop going for guys. let them come to you. if u go for them they think they are in control. stand your ground and be confident.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 January 2010):
I know you don't want to hear this, but here goes. This man isn't interested in you in the slightest, and he's being very soft about not telling you. If he was interested, he would jump at the chance to get to know you. Take it from another man, that he is not interested. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): He knows who you are, trust me and he really is not interested in you at all. You think he is playing games with you??? I'd say it was the other way round. You are just showing yourself up each time you text him. If he was interested in you, he would make sure he was available to you. Stop texting him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): You haven't heard anything from this guy because you are the one who is always texting him! It's one way
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (31 January 2010):
You text him and he says he doesnt want to talk
You text him and he says he doesnt know who you are
You text him and he says he is too knackered to go out with you.
I think there is a recurring theme there, have you considered that he is trying to tell you he isnt interested?
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