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Older Boyfriend, I don't want to lose him. Should I worry about him going out to clubs and parties???

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Question - (31 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. He's there for me, cares for me, and wants to be with me in the future. I feel that i can trust him, and dont mind him talking (as friends) to other girls. So ive been on punishment lately and havent been able to go anywhere, i didnt want to keep him locked down with me, so i told him i dont mind him going out. But the past 2 days, he's went to a club, and 2nite his cousin is having a party and he's going. For some reason, i really dont want him to go. I know he's mine, but I would feel better if he didnt go. I dont wanna tell him and overreact, or ruin his weekend. I dont know what to do. Im just going to let him go, but Should I worry or not???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010):

I know. It's just the fact that he's going and im not there. Thats where trust comes in, and its like i trust him, but at the same time i was a little worried.

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A female reader, curious0hot United States +, writes (31 January 2010):

curious0hot agony auntI don't think you should worry. Clubbing is what a lot of people do to have fun.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010):

Thank you for responding.

And ok, because I was worrying all night. I couldnt really sleep, and I when I woke up, I saw that he texted me in the middle of the night. I guess that's a good sign. But Im going to call him 2day just to see how the party went. What kind of suspicious behavoir should I check for while Im on the phone???

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A female reader, Ariel19 United States +, writes (31 January 2010):

Ariel19 agony auntyou shouldnt be worryed no.. but if he does come back supisious then you should worry a lilttel bit and start asking questions.. cause you have the right to know.. your his girlfriend...

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