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writes:I am looking for input. My fiance's biggest turn on is fantasizing about me sleeping with other men. I don't but for the sake of role play have developed a fictitious 'boyfriend' and make it as real for him as possible. So, is there anyone else out there that has a similar story?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): Fantasies are fun and not harmful. Trying to bring them to reality is when the problem begins. Roll playing is also fun and not harmful as long as it does not involve hurting the other person. As long as both partners are comfortable with the fantasies or role playing then there is no harm in it. I have fantasies. My wife used to, but rarely does now. I like the fantasies of either me having sex with her and another woman or her having sex with multiple men, but I wouldn't want that in reality. Well, perhaps her and another women. :) But I digress.
She asks me who I was with in my fantasy and we talk about it a little. We also do some role playing at times. Not always, as it takes the emotion away from the sex. It's just a fun divergence at times.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (31 January 2010):
wow, what a good idea! Much safer than finding a 3rd to bring in!
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (31 January 2010):
 Your fiance probably enjoys telling you exactly how he would like to see this person involved in your sex play, and it spices things up for you in the bedroom. Role playing is not that uncommon. If it bothers you, speak up. If it doesn't, I see no harm in continuing this little game. A little word of warning though, if he wants to bring this fantasy into reality, he will probably suggest this to you and if he already has, he might insist, in which case I recommend you to read all you can about threesomes, there are many posts also on this site related to this topic. If you go ahead with making this fantasy a reality, you should be very sure that you are willing and capable of going ahead with it and dealing with the aftermath without a hitch. Some can and like it, some cannot / are not made for this, as simple as that.
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