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*auraly
writes: Ok here's one for you, How can i achive a orgasm when he's on top? I can only have one when i'm on top of him! he doesn't know, and i'm afraid to tell him, because i've been faking for awhile. But iv'e really never been able to orgasm any other way, and with any other partner. Like i said only when i'm on top! So any tips for achiving the big "o" while he's in control?
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reader, lauraly +, writes (1 February 2010):
lauraly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, thanks guys for all your tips! i'll put them to use tonight! lol
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (1 February 2010):
Indeed, "Sweet-thing" has it right. Grind, which means circular motions of course, in almost any position. Just rotate hips. This likely massages your G-spot, or at least gives pleasure in vagina, and sometimes stimulates your clit.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (1 February 2010):
Grind baby, grind. Rub the head of his penis against your clit (works really well if he's flexible enough to allow you to bend it down, then slide against it as it goes in and out. Should do the trick!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (1 February 2010):
I've found this to be true for "many" women. Some have orgasms with the cowgirl ride much more reliably than other intercourse positions. Some also have good success with doggie style if the man knows how to slide at the right angles. But with cowgirl, you can control angle and you're possibly (likely) massaging your G-spot with the right angles.
The solution is to do cowgirl first, I would think, and enjoy tour orgasm(s). Then he can go atop for his, if he didn't already get off. Better yet is the man gives you orgasms orally prior to intercourse, which may heat you up so well that anything may bring on another. It often works very well.
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (31 January 2010):
hi maybe get him to pleasure with his hands or mouth when he is having sex with you like with your breasts kissing you too
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): Have him finger you with the 'deepspot method' to sensitise your vajajay.
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