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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met a nice guy when I was out with my brother last night and I'd be really interested in meeting up with him again. The thing is, we lost track of time until my bro realised we had just 5 mins to get to the other side of town, so I had to rush off without swapping any contact details with this guy. Smart, I know! He does work for the same company as my brother, but it's a huge company - my brother had only met him a couple of times at work in the last year and a half. I think he could've been interested in me... he was smiling and catching my eye a lot as we talked. Normally I'm not at all proactive when it comes to guys - my usual plan would involve sitting back and waiting for him to track down my bro at work and ask about me, but I want to change that habit. Is there anything I can do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): Do you know his name at all, even first name? That could be a big help. Your bro might be able to seach a staff directory or something, maybe narrow it down to a list and go from there?
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reader, Griffo +, writes (31 January 2010):
 That is so hot when a girl takes the initiative! Well done finally a bit of evolution.
I'd just ask your bro about him and see if he can hook you guys up but sort of set it up where you and this guy you like meet at the same place then your bro pulls out and says he can't make it. You'll get the chance to get to know him on a more personal level and hopfully he'll ask you out ... If not start of by being friends and ask him if he'd like to hang out with you at a specific event.
C'mon you can do it, change that mindset of waiting because honestly! Something really good may pass you by forever. Thats how us guys take it. If you really like someone it's always worth a try, that way you'll have no regrets. ;)
cheers.
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